Therefore, parents of stubborn children must pay attention to cultivating their children's easygoing sociality. Why do children have a hard time talking? The child is stubborn, twisted and unruly. The essence is that they are stubborn, have ideas, go against their parents' wishes and stick to their feelings. Parents should first consider whether they are also controlling people. Generally speaking, "twisting" children means "twisting" parents. Here, congenital factors have a great influence. Therefore, parents can't think that it's all the children's fault; However, some parents are easy-going and their children are stubborn. This situation is probably caused by acquired parents' doting, which is the main reason why parental education is illegal. In both cases, parents should pay attention to the evaluation and attitude towards their children. The most common incorrect way is to interfere with children too much. Nonsense suggestions and unreasonable reprimands will make children feel bored, but they don't take their parents' instructions seriously. They even turn a deaf ear to all instructions, and sometimes they will answer a few words, knowing that they are wrong, and they will defend themselves, because he will feel that he is a valuable person only when he finally accepts himself a little. At this time, he will show his last dignity and rights. So, he will. If you don't give in to adults, you can use it to gain a bigger sphere of influence. How to understand a stubborn child makes it difficult to manage and communicate, which will affect the child's learning cognition, intellectual and non-intellectual development, and his interpersonal relationship, because such a child often puts himself in a high-risk psychological environment, and conflicts will arise from him at any time, and the ultimate victim is himself. Therefore, parents of stubborn children must pay attention to cultivating their children's easygoing sociality. But at the same time, this child also has a lovely side, and he has great advantages. Our parents might as well appreciate their tough-guy children: they are strong, have their own ideas, persistent, strong, courageous, courageous, not afraid of punishment, have the ability to manage and dominate, want to stick to their own ideas and control the development of others and things, at least they are not easily bullied, which proves that tough guys are not completely bad. How to educate stubborn children can have different reasons and purposes. Only by understanding the psychological motivation behind children's behavior can we avoid unnecessary tension and conflict and educate children most effectively. Many parents are used to letting their children accept their mistakes by criticizing, punishing and preaching. In fact, there are more effective ways to help their children overcome mouth-to-mouth behavior. Pay more attention to children's needs, that is to say, for such a strong-willed child, every request made by him should be carefully analyzed, so that many children can avoid conflicts with their parents because their demands are not met. Therefore, parents should spend time with their children regularly, keep an understanding attitude, and often do some actions to express their feelings for their children, such as nodding their heads, patting their shoulders, touching their heads, and leaning down to ask what he just said. For those children who demonstrate to their parents, we should discuss solutions with them and give them more choices. Parents should make some concessions in a timely manner and slowly cultivate their children's ability to understand reason. It is best for parents to leave the battlefield in time when the conflict occurs, and adopt the method of moistening things quietly to avoid a strong reaction to his behavior, so as to get involved in the competition with their children and lose their dominant control, so as to have enough time and space for their children to reflect. At the same time, when children explore their sphere of influence, they will suddenly find that their battlefield is empty, which is far less interesting than cooperation.