After discovering puppy love, you can't treat children simply and rudely, let alone beat and scold them. After all, he is a minor, and his rebellious mentality is particularly serious. Beating and cursing will only increase his rebellious mentality and make him reject you and think that you have deprived him. True love, break up

2. Don't make trouble at school

Parents should not make trouble at school, please ask teachers and principals to deal with it. As a result, both of them had to go out to work and dropped out of school before graduation.

3. Don't look for each other in private

It's not good for your own children to find each other's children in private. No matter what you say to each other, your own children will definitely blame you first.

Respect for the child

Most parents in China have a common problem-paranoia. As soon as children enter adolescence, they are afraid of puppy love. In addition, most adolescent children have unrequited love and unrequited love, and they also have their own secrets. Playing to the extreme, trying to find out these secrets of children, there will be tracking, peeking at diaries, checking phone records and other similar behaviors.

Some parents have poor investigation ability, and it is inevitable that they will fight after being discovered. Just like Bian Xiao, I had a similar experience. I shouted at my parents, "You have violated my right to privacy, and you will go to jail." I was stuck in traffic for days without saying a word to them. After investigation, nothing was found, but once the situation was discovered, parents were not calm. As soon as the child comes back, there will be several conversations. In the conversation, you accidentally exposed yourself, even if your original intention was to communicate with your children, the result was counterproductive. At first, the conversation broke off unhappily. After that, when the child comes home, the alarm will sound. Adolescent children have been restless, rebellious and want to hit you more.

5. Good communication

Communication is to build a bridge between ideas. To understand the basic situation of children, communication is the only way and the best shortcut. In the process of communication, never talk to your child under the guise of parents, but as a friend, so that your child can talk to you more easily. For example, when you chat with your child as a friend, you can gossip and ask him some questions, such as whether he is infatuated with the person he likes or is infatuated with. Even if the child answers with scruples, you can dig out your thoughts from his few words. The information you need.