It is a long-term and arduous task for parents to educate their children, and obedience is an important goal of education. Parents' educational attitudes and behaviors often affect children's obedience. This article will introduce three skills to help parents better make their children obedient.

Communication and consultation

Before making educational principles for their children, parents must fully communicate and negotiate, be consistent and avoid big differences, so as to establish the dignity of both sides and let the children obey unconditionally.

one's words match his deeds

Parents' dishonesty to their children will make them question the reliability of their parents. Therefore, parents should make promises carefully in front of their children, and once they make promises, they should try their best to fulfill them. If you can't cash it, you should explain the situation and apologize in time, and discuss the compensation method with your child. Children will be obedient only if they keep their words.

Adhere to principles

Unclear parental principles will make children question the fairness of their parents. Therefore, parents should negotiate a code of conduct with their children and stick to it. Let children know that some aspects have a bottom line that cannot be crossed. Praise and encourage when you behave well, point out mistakes and punish them appropriately when you don't keep the agreement. Stick to the principle, don't pamper children because of doting, let them know that we mean what we say, and if we don't allow it, we won't allow it, so that children will be more obedient.