How to educate girls to learn to protect themselves from childhood? Children need good protection from their parents, and their awareness of protecting their private parts is relatively weak. Parents must strengthen education in this area. Let's take a look at how to educate girls from an early age to learn to protect themselves and related information.

How to educate girls from an early age to learn to protect themselves, go out to understand the environment, try to take a safe route and avoid remote and unfamiliar places?

2. Girls should pay attention to the movements around them and don't talk to strangers; If someone pesters you, get close to a crowded place as soon as possible and call for help at the same time.

Go together in the evening, and your parents will pick you up.

4. When you are away, contact your parents at any time. Don't spend the night or stay out at night.

5. Avoid meeting men alone at home, in the office and in a closed environment; Even if this person is a teacher, relative or friend.

6. Don't accept drinks and food from strangers casually.

7. When a person is at home, pay attention to closing the door and refuse strangers to enter the house.

8. For adolescent women, don't accept men's goods and money easily. Be highly vigilant against men who are diligent and rhetoric, and don't be confused by material interests; It is not advisable to wear revealing clothes in public places, especially at night.

Parents should always pay attention to their children's daily behaviors and manners. If you don't come home on time after school, have nightmares, anorexia, abnormal mood and other behaviors, parents should politely ask the reasons and don't blame; If the child is infringed, parents should keep calm, never accuse and reprimand the child, and reduce the child's guilt and guilt.

How to educate girls to protect themselves from childhood? 2. Educate children from an early age to protect their private parts, and do not allow others to touch or see their private parts.

Second, pay more attention to girls and communicate with them. Don't just pay attention to making money, but don't care about the healthy growth of children's body and mind.

Third, teach them to establish a correct outlook on life and make friends. This can prevent them from making bad friends, going astray, getting hurt or even dying.

Fourth, learn some defense knowledge. You can learn martial arts or taekwondo appropriately, and be calm and brave in the face of emergencies.

Fifth, learn to be strong and learn to love. Understand that if you leave a man who doesn't love you, you will find a man who loves you. It's normal to feel frustrated. Don't be ashamed. Learn to live a strong, healthy and happy life. This is a girl's attitude of seeking happiness, health and happiness.

6. Try not to take a taxi alone at night, stay in a hotel alone, don't open the door casually, and check the door lock for pinholes-photos-like heads, and drink less.

Seven, it is essential to guard against people's hearts. Don't abuse sympathy casually, help others casually, and keep an eye on it before making a decision.

How to educate girls to protect themselves from childhood? The world is really full of dangers for girls.

If you have a lovely daughter at home, while enjoying the happiness and satisfaction brought by the child, you will always worry about one thing, and that is the safety of the child. In August, many cases of sexual abuse of girls broke out in China, which caused widespread discussion. Another less noticeable news is that in April, a female writer in Taiwan Province Province committed suicide because of sexual assault in her early years, and she was suspected to be the mentor of the sexual assault in that year.

Being exempted from prosecution because of insufficient evidence has made many people feel helpless. Professionals said, "The actual number of minor sexual assault cases, the number of cases formed and the number of physical exposures are gradually decreasing." In other words, such events not only exist in the news, but also happen around us. Therefore, as parents, it is understandable to be deeply worried.

Of course, when girls grow up, the danger they face is not only sexual assault, but also others. Because their bodies are weaker than boys, their emotions are more delicate, and they are more likely to become the weak side in social communication.

It is easy to tell children about the danger, but it is difficult to protect the sense of security and trust.

It is very easy to tell an adult that "the world is dangerous". Just tell him the high-risk group, time, scene and so on. None of this will greatly affect an adult's view of the whole world. However, if you want to tell a little girl, it is a very nerve-racking thing. We know that the person who might hurt the girl could be anyone.

There are not only "strange corn" and "homeless people" on the street corner, but also familiar people, such as neighbors, relatives, teachers, classmates and security guards ... So if you tell a girl that you should be careful of these people mentioned above, then the child really has to doubt that she lives in a world full of demons. Moreover, the safety of girls is often related to physical injury, often related to sex. If the child is too young, you can't fully explain the sexual confusion with the child.

Of course, the main concern is to hurt children's trust in the world. When I was a child, my elders often said at night, "Don't go out at night, or you will be taken away by monsters." Later, we were not caught by monsters. However, since then, I have left a deep fear of darkness in my heart.

The American Film Trust tells a series of stories about a girl who was sexually assaulted. The film emphasizes the pain outside the girl's body, that is, the secondary injury caused by her father's persistent revenge and her friend's protection, which leads to the collapse of her trust in the world.

At the end of the film, the girl's father cried bitterly at the girl: "You have that kind of self-confidence and trust, and you sincerely trust people and things around you. This trust makes me proud and even jealous. It is my father's responsibility to maintain trust and confidence in your future life. If I can't even protect you, what am I ... "

We know that life sometimes feels happy, largely because we are safe and accepted, and the people around us can be trusted. And once our trust and sense of security in this world are destroyed, it will be tantamount to living in an endless night of terror. If parents don't tell their children properly, the dangers in this world are everywhere, which is a great harm to an effective child.

Use the rules of love to ensure safety, not intimidation.

Therefore, loving children is an instinct, while "loving" children is a skill. How to ensure the safety of girls without exaggerating the darkness of the world is a technical job that needs to integrate "emotion" and "law".

Fortunately, there is never a shortage of loving and intelligent mothers in the world. Shen, the young mother of an 8-year-old girl, is one of the most enlightened people. She is also deeply worried about her daughter's growth. Once, because she saw too many negative news events, she was nervous, neurotic and sensitive to almost neuroticism. My daughter rehearsed the program with the kindergarten teacher. As soon as she heard that there were men in the accompanying teacher, she was cranky and fidgety.

Every once in a while, I call the teacher who leads the team and can't wait to pick up my daughter at the first time. Every time I give my daughter a bath, she carefully asks if anything special happened today, and if anyone hugged or kissed you. Even the male elders in the family want to take their daughters out to play. I am reluctant to let my daughters spend the night at relatives' homes. ...

What changed her was the movie A Beautiful Life. Di Naiying tells the story of a Jewish father and son who were sent to a Nazi concentration camp. The father lied with his own imagination that they were in a game, and finally the father let his son's childlike innocence not be hurt. So, she decided to build a firewall of love for her children. She used her daughter's favorite Barbie doll to set 88 "princess rules" for her children.

Of course, to make children accept these rules, you can't learn them by rote. She personally changed many classic fairy tales and incorporated these 88 safety rules into them. The addition of these codes also adds some warmth and love to those classic fairy tales. Now, these codes and stories have been compiled into a book, which has become the daughter education book of Chinese mothers and the princess code of Barbie School.

Use fairy tales to convey safety rules and avoid negative feelings about danger.

In this fun "Barbie School Princess Code", Snow White's story will tell the children: Don't cry when in danger, calmly deal with the bad guys and make conditions; Don't sleep in a strange place casually-if you must sleep, please lock the door; Men and women are different, girls can't sleep in a room with boys;

Close the doors and windows and close the curtains when you take a shower and change clothes. The story of the frog prince will tell girls: girls can't give up their principles for what they love; Girls can't promise others' unreasonable demands for their beloved items; Learn to refuse; Be firm in the face of others' entanglement;

Repaying others' help should be reasonable and reasonable, not casual; Don't just look good when choosing a partner. Hai's daughter will tell her children that everyone should do the right thing at the right age, and it is not necessarily a good thing to try something too early. The ugly duckling will tell the children that it is not advisable to run away from home. ...

In this way, children can not only learn valuable safety rules, but also avoid the fear of the real world through symbolic fairy tales. Compared with the traditional method of making children aware of danger by creating a feeling of terror, this method is more loving, reduces children's fear of the cruel side of real life and protects their sense of security in the world.

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We used to be "afraid" because of "love" and were full of worries about our children's lives. However, wise parents will not educate their children with "fear", but build protection with "love". Complete the establishment of children's safety awareness in warm parent-child reading again and again. When one day, they finally walked away from our sight. We believe that they can take care of themselves. Because we know that they not only have safety rules to protect themselves, but also have the power of love.