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1. family.
Family is the place where children are educated first, and parents are the first teachers. If a child is influenced by bad education at home and develops bad thoughts and habits from an early age, the school will spend more energy to correct his shortcomings after entering school. At present, some parents don't know enough about the significance of family education. Some parents only care about parenting and education, mistakenly thinking that their responsibility is only to feed and clothe their children. As for education, it is a matter for schools and teachers; Some parents prefer and spoil their children, and develop their children's bad psychological state and behavior habits such as willfulness and femininity; Some parents have the desire to educate their children, but they often do not educate them properly. They are too strict with their children, too fond of them, and even often beat and scold them, which makes them look passive in Nuo Nuo, but they don't think so in their hearts. These are the initial reasons why children don't do their homework.
2. School.
The main workers of school education are teachers, who are engineers of human soul and role models for students to imitate. Teachers' words and deeds have a subtle influence on students. If the teacher's words and deeds are different, he often forgets to do three things in class, and then the teacher's management is not in place, such as irregular assignment of homework and untimely inspection of homework, which are the direct reasons for students to develop the habit of not doing homework.
13. Social aspects.
Society is a big family, and the negative factors in society also affect the healthy growth of children. Such as family casinos, pornographic movies and periodicals, Internet cafes, game rooms, etc. , everywhere, attracting children everywhere. Especially in the game room, there are not only children before class, but also children are unwilling to go home after school. On weekends, this is their paradise. As for homework, I have long forgotten it. Many children drop out of school because of this.
Two methods
1. Establish a parent school.
Organize parents to study pedagogy, psychology and family education. Teachers should help parents understand the teaching materials correctly and avoid parents' deviation in helping their children learn. When organizing parents to study, we should also encourage them to speak actively, ask them to express their views on school work, put forward their views on family education, and talk about their own experiences and lessons in educating children. This not only educates other parents, but also provides some good experience for teachers, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
4. Strengthen ideological education.
To educate students, we must understand them. Only by knowing and being familiar with their situation can we make a feasible education work plan. To understand and be familiar with students' situation, we should be good at observing, establish a good relationship between teachers and students, and let students dare to express their feelings, so as to better prescribe the right medicine and adopt practical ideological education. I once met such a student who changed classes after five years. At that time, his math score was 5, and he often didn't do math homework. Even if he did, his handwriting was illegible. After a period of getting along and actual investigation, I gradually learned that he lives with his grandmother. In addition to two broken beds, there is a broken wardrobe and an old black and white 14-inch TV with his homework written on the bed. He doesn't have a good relationship with his stepmother, and he doesn't want to go back to his home. In view of this situation, on the one hand, I let him do his homework at the home of his classmates in the same village, on the other hand, I helped him overcome his psychological obstacles and get along with his stepmother actively, so that he could understand that his grandmother was old and would eventually live with his parents. Convinced the child, I indirectly did the ideological work of his parents. Due to the efforts of all parties, the child made rapid progress in all aspects, got excellent results in mathematics in graduation exams, and became the monitor of the first grade. Every time I think about this child, I feel sincerely gratified.
14. Timely home visits.
In rural schools, parents are God. It is difficult to invite parents to school. Some parents don't care about their children's study at all, while others think that going to school is disgraceful. However, it is different for teachers to visit students' homes. Home visits can promote teachers and parents to better understand students in an all-round way, facilitate communication between teachers and parents and enhance friendship. Successful home visits can also be praised by parents and enhance the prestige of teachers. So, what is the correct home visit?
During home visits, parents should fully understand the students' situation. When speaking, students are usually present to introduce their progress in school, their advantages and disadvantages, and point out the direction of their efforts in front of their parents. Don't "complain" during home visits. For those students who make mistakes, we should analyze the reasons and study the educational methods with their parents. Teachers must tell parents not to adopt incorrect educational methods. Through home visits, students feel that teachers and parents care about him from the beginning, so it is easy to receive education.
When teaching fifth grade mathematics, a girl was transferred to our class. She is introverted and does not like to talk. Every time she was asked to answer questions in class, her face turned into a big red cloth. It is understood that she used to be an abandoned child in her class, so she did her homework if she wanted to, and she didn't want to. The best math score is 30 points. On a home visit, her parents said as soon as they saw me, "It's stupid to pick up girls, and they are very familiar with mathematics. I find it difficult to enter mathematics. " I laughed and joked: "No wonder your girl is stupid! You say that every day. No matter how clever a child is, he will lose confidence after a long time and think he is a benzene child. " At that time, the students had just corrected a wrong question, so I took the opportunity to say, "Look, I didn't explain this question. Your child did it himself. Do you still think she is stupid? " The main reason why your children are poor at math is that they lose confidence in math and then spend too little time on it. "The students have changed a lot since that home visit. She not only does her homework every day, but also dares to raise her hand to answer questions in class. Moreover, after school every day, she also took the initiative to ask me questions and asked me to ask her questions. After two years of joint efforts, she passed the graduation exam and handed in a qualified answer sheet to her alma mater with a score of 75. Looking back on the growth process of this student, I think home visits have played a very important role.
In addition, the teacher can also form a study group with the students in the same village, and let the responsible students serve as the team leader to specify the place for collective study. Teachers should conduct regular and irregular spot checks to urge them to form a good atmosphere of mutual help and learning. Praise the well-done group in time, let other groups find out the gap, propose improvement methods and improve the efficiency of group cooperative learning. In education and teaching, the harmonious teacher-student relationship and pleasant teaching methods between teachers and students can infect students and make them happily and consciously devote themselves to learning. In short, as long as our teachers are good at summing up experiences and lessons, being good at innovation and being brave in practice. We firmly believe that there is no problem that cannot be overcome or solved.