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How to educate stubborn children
As parents, we all hope that our children can grow up healthily and happily, but sometimes their stubborn personality will become an obstacle. So, how to solve this problem?

Start with yourself.

Stubbornness is only part of a child's personality, so we should start from ourselves. As parents, we should learn to control our emotions and not get angry easily. Show patience and calmness in front of children and set a good example for them.

Deep communication

Communicate with children in depth, listen carefully to their every word, and try to figure out their true thoughts. This will not only make children feel your concern, but also better understand their needs and emotions.

♀? Control emotion

Try some ways to help children control their emotions. For example, tell your child to be aware of the consequences before losing his temper, and count from one to ten in his mind before sending it out. Of course, we can also let children encounter difficulties in their daily lives and let them gradually smooth out the edges and corners.

Transposition consideration

Overcoming "anger" with the help of "sadness" is a "golden" attribute. Let children see their parents' bitter tears, let them understand their parents' difficulties, and then learn to empathize.

Moderate corporal punishment

Appropriate corporal punishment is necessary, but we must pay attention to moderation. Communicate with children after corporal punishment to truly achieve the purpose of education.