Every night, there are still many children gathered in the slides of the community, especially on Friday and Saturday nights, and the number of children who go to that place to play is several times more than usual.

Last night, my daughter also clamored to go sliding. As soon as we got there, we saw a little boy about seven years old blocking the starting point of the revolving slide. No matter how other children shouted, he kept blocking it. I had to persuade my daughter to go to other shorter slide entrances.

Because I didn't go out with my mobile phone and didn't know those neighbors, I was bored and sat by the flower bed next to the slide. After about ten minutes, I saw the little boy still stuck at the entrance of the revolving slide. During this period, several parents advised him to play in a civilized way and not be so overbearing, but the little boy didn't listen at all.

It turns out that I thought the little boy must be playing downstairs alone. Otherwise, accompanied by his family, how could he remain silent for a long time in the face of the child's behavior without persuasion? But what happened next made me change this view—

Because some children just came to the entrance of the revolving slide, they didn't know that the little boy deliberately blocked it, or politely shouted, "Brother, it's your turn to slide. Why not slide? " We are all waiting in line. "

Faced with the polite language of other children, the little boy not only did not restrain his behavior, but pushed back hard, and several children fell down. After all, older children don't go to that place to play, and almost all children under the age of six or seven like to play slides. The first wave of children got angry and ran away. After stumbling up, they went to other slide entrances to play.

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Then, new children join in. There are fewer people watching the revolving slide, and they also line up next to the little boy. Due to the urging of some children, the little boy looked a little impatient. He kept pushing the children behind him, so that one of the little girls got angry. She stood up, went to the front and pushed the little boy.

The little boy leaned forward, probably thinking he was going to wrestle, and tears came out immediately. The little girl was caught by the collar by a middle-aged woman before she could react. She shouted at the little girl, "You must apologize to my son. You scared my son, or I will fight back. See if you can bear it? " The little girl didn't dare to say anything. The little boy hid behind his mother and shouted, "Mom, I'm afraid, I'm timid."

The mother of the little girl sitting next to me is very angry. She hurried forward, grabbed her daughter and shouted at the boy's mother, "Obviously, your son has been fooling around and pushing other children. My children are just resisting. What are you pretending to be pathetic? " Really so timid, will he always be stuck there? After a parent's reminder, he should have converged! "

The little boy's mother is full of momentum, her hands akimbo and she wants to fight. She shouted at everyone, "What are you looking at? What is there to see? " They all bullied my son and cried. Some people are still so loyal and have no quality! "Several parents couldn't stand it anymore and said in unison," Is this your private property? Why is it natural for your children to be blocked at the door, and it is wrong for others to want to play? Is your family sharing the area to get the property management fee? Like mother, like son. "

Seeing that everyone was blaming themselves, the little boy and his mother who felt isolated dragged their son along and cursed, guessing that she had gone home. After the little boy left, the slide restored its old order, and the children lined up to play and laughed harmoniously.

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In fact, there are quite a few such things in life. Most parents are teaching their children how to behave, but some parents are helping others all day. Most parents are correcting their children's wrong behavior, but a few parents praise their children's shortcomings.

A child is a mirror of his parents. No child is born with evil thoughts just because his parents are evil heads. Family education is the fundamental education that determines the height of a child's life. If there are serious mistakes in ideology and morality, no matter how good the grades are, they are just a waste!

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