As parents, we should put ourselves in a correct position subjectively, and parents should understand and master their children's personality, characteristics and weaknesses. As the old saying goes, knowing a son is nothing like a father. As parents, the advantages and disadvantages of children are not clear. It is not advisable to compare them with other children and ask them how to be successful or excellent.
The child was born with a piece of jade. Parents should be like sculptors. They should not only appreciate the beauty of this jade, but also have the magnanimity to tolerate her existence and make it perfect through continuous carving.
The objective environment plays a decisive role in whether children can grow up through education. The objective environment is composed of many factors, which constantly changes with the growth of children. How to create a good objective environment for children is directly related to the growth and development of this "sapling". Theoretically, we can pay attention to the following four factors.
Cultivating children from an early age has its own way of thinking and expression. Parents should try their best to encourage their children to express their ideas and to fully develop their imagination by using different ways such as language, words and pictures.
Cultivating children from an early age should be organized, disciplined and responsible. Modern society is an orderly and legal social environment. Whether in the present learning stage or in the future, it is essential to cultivate their organization and discipline from an early age. The cultivation of responsibility is to educate clearly. It is their duty to study now, and it is their life responsibility to serve the society in the future.
Parents should create a relaxed learning environment for their children. Parents and schools should not add an invisible ideological burden to their children's study. When they are forced to learn some uninterested talents or their children's grades are not satisfactory, their parents will nag and put forward some requirements that are not suitable for their children, resulting in an invisible sense of tension and oppression.
Parents should communicate with their children more and encourage them more. The purpose of more communication is to fully understand the children's ideological trends through communication. When children's ideas are different from those of their parents, they should be allowed to express them, and if there are reasons, they should be firmly supported. If there is anything wrong, we should patiently explain the truth and have a full discussion with it. When children encounter difficulties or unsatisfactory grades, help them analyze the reasons, find solutions and encourage them enthusiastically. Cultivate his spirit of "winning without arrogance and losing with grace".
As a student's parents, it is helpful for how to train and educate our children and cultivate them into socially useful talents with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique. This is a major, a science and a systematic project that the whole society pays attention to. Ask social experts, school teachers and parents to give advice.