First, family education.
1, when communicating, be gentle, praise your child more, or praise your child through someone else's mouth.
2. When correcting children's bad behavior habits, don't use the tone and attitude of accusation to educate children. ?
3. Let children know that their families trust them. When exchanging feelings, they can also use letters. ?
4. When explaining things, explain them to your child only once. When giving advice to children, only give constructive suggestions. ?
5, usually learn to play with children and get along with children like friends. ?
6. In some things, we should learn to subtly divert children's attention and let them know what is wrong in time.
Second, social education.
We can let children take part in social labor, show them the process of visiting working people, let them watch some inspiring TV movies and participate in some meaningful social activities, let them know what they should and should not do, and let them know that the prosperity of society is due to the contributions of more unknown people.
Third, love to educate children?
Let the child have love, let him know how to sympathize with others, so that the child will know how to be grateful and cherish, and let him do something about charity, such as donating clothes and pocket money to children in poor areas.
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Reasons for children's disobedience:
1, the child's feelings are ignored.
Some parents always think that their children are too young to know anything. Never give advice to children. In fact, this will make children disobedient, and children will feel that they are not valued. In the long run, they will have rebellious psychology.
Therefore, parents should treat their children equally, let them express their opinions and discuss problems with them. When their opinions are adopted, they will be more willing to participate and do it more attentively.
2. Children have no choice.
As children grow up and improve their self-awareness, they will gradually have their own views and interests. From the perspective of parents, I always hope that my children can become useful people, think that what they do for their children is the best, plan everything for their children and ask them to follow suit.
Preventing children from trying their own will will make them feel depressed. In the long run, children will become disobedient. So what parents need to do is to respect their children's choices, instead of letting them obey your decisions.