"Happy education" literally means that education is carried out on the premise that children are happy. It is not difficult to find that it is an imported product, which is obviously much more popular than my parents' "stick education" when I was a child.
My understanding of "happy education" is as follows:
First, "happy education" has a scope.
For children's education, "happy education" should have a scope. Learn this piece, don't go astray. For example, children don't want to study, and parents think that their children are still young and just go to primary school, so there is no need to study so hard. It doesn't matter whether you learn or not. If the child doesn't want to learn, then don't learn, as long as she is happy.
For example, I used to have a junior high school classmate who suddenly didn't want to go to school during school. Parents think that the child doesn't want to learn, so let her come as happily as possible. Now, children always complain why their parents don't persuade her …
Therefore, children should not believe in learning too much and insist on "happy education" too much. They only believe in persistent study, and only believe in hard work and diligence. Especially in the case of insufficient consideration for children, it is still necessary to give full play to the supervision and supervision role of parents.
Second, "happy education" focuses on creating a happy and relaxed atmosphere.
A family has no less influence on children than a school. As parents, we should strive to create a relaxed and happy atmosphere for our children. Really treat the child as an independent villain.
When children face difficulties in their studies, instead of embellishing them, it is better to encourage them and build their confidence. Don't mention "other people's children" so that children can relieve stress.
At the same time, tell your child that you believe that she has the ability to do everything well. Don't criticize a child just because he didn't do well in the exam once. She wants to compare with her last self and take "always a little more than last time" as her next goal.
In the long run, we don't want to train examination machines. We want to cultivate her into an adult, a healthy person, not only physically, but also mentally.
In short, as parents, we have an obligation to help children make the best choice for them when they don't have enough judgment. If left unchecked, he may be twice as happy in a short time, but in the long run, this is not the best way.
Create a happy family atmosphere and a stable emotional atmosphere for children, and let them grow up confidently and happily. No matter in study, making friends or doing things, I am confident that I have the ability to solve it!
Children's physical and mental health is what we should constantly pay attention to and realize!