Because parents are children's first teachers, imitation is children's nature, and his behavior before 18 years old comes from imitating parents.

First, why do parents have to take the first lesson?

Many parents admit that they don't get along well with their children and don't know what their children are thinking.

So they can only use their own thinking to understand children. They think that children don't do their homework because they want to play, and children cry because they want to make trouble for them.

Over time, children's needs are ignored, and many psychological problems are more likely to occur.

Therefore, the first lesson in school is to help parents better understand their children and help them grow up better.

Second, why is education so important?

Children's character is cultivated from childhood, and children who are often left out by their parents when they are young can easily become withdrawn when they grow up. Children who are subjected to violence as children often feel insecure when they grow up. Children who are spoiled by their parents when they are young are easy to be complacent and willful when they grow up.

Childhood is the most important period in a person's life. He formed a person's basic character, which is difficult to change afterwards.

This is why education is so important, because spending enough time in childhood to cultivate children's correct values, give them the warmth they want and stop their inappropriate behavior will make children become emotional and happy people.

Third, what parents need to do.

Of course, parents can't just treat their children's learning in the first class. Parents should take this lesson as a node, always pay attention to the child's spiritual growth, and let the child have a healthy psychology, instead of just paying attention to his academic performance.

In addition, parents need to actively learn parenting knowledge and learn more about their children's thoughts, which is much more reliable than guessing.

Communicate with children more. If children have different ideas from ordinary people, don't use extreme violence to stifle their interest. It is best to guide children slowly and understand them.