1. Communicate with your child in a peaceful tone to understand his inner thoughts.
Children in rebellious period generally want to be respected and listened to by adults. Sometimes they will rebel in order to attract the attention and love of their parents, because only by getting along with their parents in a comfortable way can they show their status.
In fact, they are more because of their inner loneliness, hoping to get the love and care of others, so please understand them, narrow the distance between them with love and tolerance and enter their hearts.
2. Parents adapt to the changes in children's growth, and evaluate them vertically instead of horizontally.
No matter how old the child is, the most unbearable thing is that everyone next door is better than you. How could you be like this? You weren't like this before.
It's getting better and better now. In this way, children are constantly growing and changing, and parents should also grow up with their children instead of staying in the past impression.
At this time, what parents need to do is to try to understand their children's inner thoughts and changes, try not to compare with others, let their children compare with themselves, and slowly accompany their children to progress.
3. Spend more time with your children. Even if you are busy at work, you can spend your spare time with your children.
Children who are not accompanied by their parents will be more rebellious in adolescence, so parents need more time to accompany their children with love and give them enough sense of security and identity.