In ancient times, the person who ruled the world with filial piety was Mo Shunruo. Filial piety plays a triple role, that is, "the husband's filial piety begins as a relative, the middle is a monarch, and the end is to establish oneself", and the three are integrated into one. Therefore, "Xiu De, a gentleman respects you" In ancient China, filial piety has always been the way of prenatal education.
It is particularly emphasized that "a gentleman stops at benevolence, a minister stops at respect, a father stops at kindness, a son stops at teaching, and making friends with Chinese people stops at faith." In ancient China, family education theory and education-centered national governance theory were formed, including: the education of children, the education of fathers, the education of ministers and the education of Wang Zhixiao. As the saying goes, the son of heaven is also a dutiful son.
Interpretation of Yan Cixiang's Collection
In the history of our country, Yan and Ci are provincial names and honorifics for father and mother respectively. In the history of our country, when people speak to outsiders, they can generally call their father Yan, strict father or simply Yan; For a person's mother, it can generally be called kindness, loving mother, or simple kindness. Strict means strict, strict and dignified. Kindness refers to kindness, kindness and compassion.
The combination of strictness and kindness in family education refers not only to the mutual cooperation of parents, but also to the mutual integration of strictness and kindness. Combining leniency with severity is the basic mystery of the success of successful family education, and it is also the basic requirement for all family education, especially the one-child family education.
The above contents refer to Baidu Encyclopedia-Yan Cixiang Collection.
The above contents refer to "Theoretical Deficiency and Self-confidence Reconstruction of Family Education Research in China" by Southwest Ethnic Education and Psychological Research Center of Southwest University, the Key Research Base of Humanities and Social Sciences of the Ministry of Education.