Zhuge Liang was a household name during the Three Kingdoms period. He is not only the embodiment of wisdom, but also a model of loyalty and loyalty, and even a model of teaching children.

According to the biography of Three Kingdoms Zhuge Liang, Zhuge Liang got his son Zhuge Zhan in his later years and liked it very much. In order to educate his son, he wrote the Ten Commandments, which was handed down to later generations.

Zhuge Liang wrote in the Commandment: "A gentleman's trip is a retreat and frugality.

If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will not be far away.

Husbands should learn to be quiet and talented, and also learn to be knowledgeable and ambitious.

If you are horny and late, you can't work hard, but if you are serious, you can't have sex.

Keep pace with the times, keep pace with the day, and will eventually wither and not meet many worlds.

Raise the poor, and! Although there are only 86 words, it reflects Zhuge Liang's wisdom in educating children.

Among them, "indifferent ambition, quiet and far-reaching" is the core, that is, setting high standards, cultivating the virtue of indifference and thrift, and forming a quiet and gentle character.

This concept is necessary as a reference for modern families.

Without will, there is no place to stand.

Confucius summed up his life and said, "I am determined to learn from five out of ten, stand at thirty, be puzzled at forty, know my destiny at fifty, be obedient at sixty, and not overstep my bounds at seventy."

When Confucius was fifteen years old, he took "learning benevolence" as his lifelong ambition and made great achievements.

In the initial stage of children's life, what parents should do is not to let their children learn much knowledge, not to give them a starting point, not to let their children learn more talents, but to let their children aspire to become talents.

It's like taking root in a big tree and laying a solid foundation for a lifetime.

To set up children's ambitions, we can start from the following two aspects.

First, discover and establish interest in life by cultivating your hobbies; The second is to enrich children's life practice and actively seek the direction of life.

People are indifferent and unhappy.

In today's society, material life is extremely rich, and people's pursuit of things is gradually increasing, satisfying children's various requirements and becoming the embodiment of parents' love for their children. Many children are addicted to the pleasure of material entertainment.

Zhuge Liang regards "indifference" as the pursuit of life in the process of educating his children. "Indifference" is the desire to reduce material surplus and improve the spiritual interest of life.

Educating children begins with "indifference".

If you want to develop an "indifferent" atmosphere, it depends on the family atmosphere.

I suggest that parents should set an example, form the habit of daily frugality and cherish food and clothing.

At the same time, excessive comparison is reduced, and clothes are clean, comfortable and tidy.

It is also advocated not to take children to shopping malls, amusement parks and other entertainment places to experience "material enjoyment", but to take children close to nature and develop fun from it.

Man can't compare with a distant place without peace.

Without quiet beauty, there is no tenderness.

In the interpretation of the Book of Rites, "gentle and honest, also teaches poetry.

Poetry can cultivate a child's gentle and honest character.

Being able to read the Book of Songs from an early age is conducive to the cultivation of good character in the future.

Today, I think silence can also cultivate children's attention.

Concentration is an important foundation for starting a business.

Please believe that "there is a poem in your stomach."

Parents can recite classics like this with their children. 1. Buy a classic book with pinyin and authority; The way to read with your fingers is to dip the words in your hand and read them word by word.

It can also be understood as. A word from parents, a word from children; 3. You are still going on. Read aloud for about 30 minutes every day.

The instructor of this paper is Liu Liangjian, Liu, Liu, Liu.

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