Watson, a master of American behavioral psychology, once left such a thought-provoking sentence in behaviorism. "Give me a dozen healthy babies, a special environment dominated by me, and let me raise them in this environment. I can guarantee that I can choose any one, regardless of his parents' talents, inclinations, hobbies, occupations and races, and I can train them into any kind of people-doctors, lawyers, artists, big businessmen, even beggars or robbers. "This shows the great significance of acquired education to life. Compared with heredity, education has the deepest impression on a person!
How to master this science, from the beginning of learning, learn children's psychology to understand its characteristics. When we observe children's behavior, we can try to understand the psychology behind it. Constant learning can improve our sensitivity, but just learning is often not enough. A lot of practice, reflection and summary, then we can change the wrong way of getting along with children, and then we can "completely change" the bad behavior of children.
Now, I see a lot of my own problems in my children, such as frequent rude interruptions and sometimes constant urging, which leads to forgetfulness and procrastination. When you calm down, you will realize the seriousness of the problem, but this bad habit of parents is not so easy to get rid of. In other words, children's problems are a continuation of our bad habits. Only by changing yourself more can children's habits be improved proudly.
Education requires parents to remain calm and rational at all times.