In the process of raising children, I deeply feel that money has become a stepping stone for children.
But I don't think it's necessary to be particularly anxious. In fact, parents with models must first cultivate their own models, standardize their own ways of doing things, and play a decisive role by setting an example. Secondly, it is the problem of spending money to train children. Children go out to play and go to school, and time is limited. It is enough to cultivate hobbies in a targeted way. If parents have a high level, spending a little money can make children get twice the result with half the effort.
Now there are too many parents who have money but don't understand education. Restricting children's education is not a matter of money.
In the initial stage of social development, the cost of raising children is low, so parents at this stage will tend to have more children. With the increasingly fierce social competition, what is needed is no longer cheap labor, so the family's demand for children has changed from increasing the number to improving the quality. The only child not only enjoys the love of his parents, but also bears the pressure of his parents alone. The way of education is inseparable from the social environment, and a good educational concept should also be linked to the mainstream of society.
Education always needs cost, just like decoration, some are simple, some are luxurious, and some are rough. Parents are very clear. If you don't install it well, it will be very tangled, very regretful and very painful. The same is true of raising children. It takes countless efforts for children to grow up. There are countless gullies and ridges, and eighty-one difficulties may not be passed.
This society is not like when we were children. Now the gap is unusually large. Information and resources are in the hands of a few people, leaning towards money and power. So many people realize that children will definitely take a different path from other children because of their parents. The investment in education is the most concerned and involuntary thing for parents. I've always wanted to give my children the same things as other children. Others have it, so do I. The cost of education is high, but it is undeniable that it is the responsibility of parents.