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Happy education is the source of long-term inner happiness.
When it comes to happy education, many parents feel that they understand it very well. Isn't happy education to prevent children from doing things they don't like or don't want to do? As long as they are happy, let them go. For some time, the Happy Education Law has aroused many people's discussion.
Many parents send their children to interest classes, all of which advocate the "happy education method". Children can't cry and scold, don't study if they are wronged, and don't do too much homework. In short, children's feelings come first. If the child is unhappy, parents will let go and follow the child's personality.
Some parents have no intention of cultivating their children into excellent people from the beginning, and sending their children to interest classes is more like a trend. On the one hand, parents hold high the happy education. As long as their children are happy, it doesn't matter whether they learn or not. They just want their children to pass the time. On the other hand, expectations are too high and children expect success. I hope that children will become the envy of everyone. But in fact, when encountering difficulties, most parents will not educate themselves and their children. It doesn't matter if children can't keep up with their grades. Anyway, they will never be artists in the future. I wish I had done my homework at school. If you don't force the children, the pressure is too great. Don't go to school if you don't want to. Now some people just need to ask for a tutor at home. Look at those who sold pork after graduation in Tsinghua, those who started businesses before Bill Gates dropped out of college, and so on.
I can't help feeling that I can be said to be a child who grew up with a happy education. My parents didn't ask much of me since I was a child. I have never asked about my study and interest. Buy books if you like reading, and support me if you like painting. I have never seriously analyzed the situation that my academic performance can't keep up. Father thinks that there is still a long way to go in life, and there are more things to learn in the future. The report card in front of him does not represent the future. Mothers think that girls don't need a high degree. So during my study, I studied in general and painted in general, and my education stopped at a third-rate university. In this way, everything is ordinary, and the job interview is also ordinary. Because I am not prominent enough, I have been in a state where everything is normal. Later, I learned that those who are highly educated and successful in a certain field are happier than ordinary people can imagine. They have higher academic qualifications and better development prospects. It is also easy for them to succeed in a fast-paced life. What is more important is to take the initiative to find a job and find someone.
Nowadays, many people misunderstand the true meaning of "happy education", thinking that happy education is to release children's nature, respect their choices and reduce their burden. Under the guise of loving and caring for children, this kind of "happy education" is called respecting children. On the surface, it lightens the burden on children, but in fact it instills in children the problem of giving up suffering prematurely. I don't know that by doing this, children get only temporary happiness, not real happiness, which will make them more miserable in the future.
"Happy education" was put forward by British educator Spencer. He believes that the purpose of education is to make children happy, and it should be to let children study in a happy state. Knock on the blackboard, please draw the key points. The purpose of education is to make children happy! Therefore, it's not that you don't study, but that you don't educate is happy education. On the contrary, to make children happy, education is indispensable.
Education permeates people's long life, and education is everywhere. Sitting on a small bench at school and listening carefully at school is education. Being inspired by society is also education, and the advice of people around you is also education. Education is the source of people's long-term inner happiness.
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Long-term happiness comes from a heartfelt sense of accomplishment.
Receiving education is the only way for a person to master skills, and it is also the foundation for a person to stand on the society. Without education, human beings cannot make progress and build a civilized and harmonious society. Everyone in the world has been receiving education. The depth and systematicness of education directly affect a person's achievements. In-depth and systematic learning is a long-term process, but this process can be happy.
Recently, Jay Chou's "Nocturne" won the gold medal, and Jay Chou became the 12 global Chinese music list, winning the best male singer and the best composer award, the most popular male singer award and the most popular music video award, and won four awards in succession at the award ceremony. His masterpiece won numerous awards, and "Nocturne" won many awards in one breath, which is called the music god. In fact, Jay Chou is not a god. He is also an ordinary boy. In the early years, he made a speech in Let's Speak. He said that just like ordinary people, he played the piano more often. It is this that has become the highlight of him, which has made him surpass ordinary people and achieved today's achievements. He once told a variety show that he didn't like practicing the piano when he was a child and was forced to practice by his mother.
ZhangJike, the world champion of table tennis who participated in the variety show Daughter in Love, has been learning to play table tennis with her father since she was five years old. At the age of seven, she was taken to the sea to learn swimming and exercise her coordination ability. She was severely scolded by her father since she was a child. She has no childhood and youth, but she has a lot of endless training. But now he will only get more frustrated. From winning the men's team championship at the age of 14 to adulthood, he won numerous awards in the Olympic Games, national championships, national games and domestic competitions, so that he responded in an interview that if he can persist in the future, he will continue to persist. If he can't play, he will do something related to table tennis. He intends to stay in the sea of table tennis in the future. It can be seen that his persistence and love for table tennis today are inseparable from his childhood training.
Pianist Lang Lang was also forced to practice the piano when he was a child. He began to learn piano at the age of 3, won the first prize in a children's piano competition at the age of 5, and gave his first solo concert. At the age of seven, he learned from a teacher and won many firsts. Since then, he has won numerous awards and honors. But what many people don't know is that Lang Lang trained as much as 16 hours during his study abroad and only ate instant noodles every day.
Countless people have successfully found jobs. They all have one thing in common. Even if they are particularly talented, they have paid a certain percentage of sweat the day after tomorrow. When most parents carry out "happy education", their childhood is not happy, but they practice hard and cry countless times. Their contribution laid the foundation for their future achievements, and it was these brilliant achievements that brought great sense of accomplishment, inner joy and long-term happiness.
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Learning is not a chore, and interest is not innate.
Most parents will face such a scene. When sending their children to an interest class, the children will yell "Bitterness and Tiredness". Learning is not boring, learning can be simple and happy. Only when children learn deeply and understand deeply can they feel the sense of accomplishment brought by learning. However, most parents will think that their children have no talent and are not interested in learning art. Is it really that their children are not interested?
Picasso, the master of art, once said: He was born an artist. Children are still in the stage of enlightenment and exploration, so we should cultivate them well. Even if they have artistic talent, they can't do without cultivation. ? Interest is not innate, but acquired. Only through learning can children explore the unknown self, and their potential for systematic learning has not yet been discovered. At this time, parents need to force their children to learn, not to bring pain to their children, but to let parents learn to guide their children to learn to perceive happiness and experience happiness. Parents' encouragement is the best motivation when they want to give up in the face of boring study. For example, if a child learns a difficult topic, parents should learn to praise and praise, so that the child can enjoy freedom in the ocean of knowledge.