Should children beat and scold if they don't obey? It's normal for children to be disobedient. Occasionally mistakes can be ignored. If the child has to beat and scold every time he makes a mistake. It just means that parents don't know how to educate their children. Disciplining children should be based on preaching. Even if you make a mistake, you should explain the truth to your child, explain the reasons for the mistake, and let your child know what he did wrong and how to deal with the same thing in the future. If we educate them only by beating and cursing, they will make the same mistake again because they don't know how to deal with the same thing in the future. Of course, in the face of children's unreasonable troubles, it is inevitable to beat and scold appropriately, but we should be careful not to scold, which will lose our willpower.

How do parents educate disobedient children? Find out why.

Through investigation, we can understand the reasons of children's violation and confrontation, find out the crux of the problem, reflect on the problem properly, make appropriate adjustments according to the situation, and learn lessons at the same time.

Don't be rude

Although compulsory repression can temporarily eliminate children's obvious disobedience, children are often unconvinced. Forced repression also sets a bad example for children, which will lead to more disobedience in the future.

Review and training.

Many parents' discipline is usually too concerned and strict, and serious "violation of discipline" will cause children's resentment. If you manage Dachuan too little, such as nagging and being too picky, you should not manage it or even make mistakes.

Strengthen communication.

Have a sincere conversation with children, understand their psychological state, let children feel the kindness of parents and teachers, and solve problems in a timely and reasonable manner.

Always feel the same way.

Only by understanding and empathizing with children can we correctly guide children to grow up, learn the art and charm of language, control their emotions and not treat children as emotional catharsis. This is what every parent should do.

Stick to principles and never give in.

If it is true, don't give up this principle because of children's violation and confrontation, otherwise children will use it as a "weapon" to force their parents to yield and meet their unreasonable demands in the future.