For example, my child and I agreed to play iPad for only half an hour every day, but when the child cried, the adults gave in, so I played for another half an hour. One of the characteristics of spoiled children is that their demands are always met. The first time there is a problem, adults will compromise and will only find more trouble for themselves and their children in the future.

2. Some things must be done by children themselves.

Some parents also think that children are young and slow to do things. It's too late for parents to help their children do everything first, and then to train their children. In fact, there are things that children can do at every age.

Parents can tell their children what they want to do according to their characteristics. Love has never been all-encompassing, teaching children how to solve problems, not helping them solve problems. This is true love.

Let children do more things that they can. After a long time, he will learn to stand on his own feet when he grows up.

Some responsibilities must be borne by the children themselves.

Parents can't help their children escape, but should ask their children to bear the consequences for their wrong words and deeds, so that children have the honesty and courage to face mistakes.

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For children aged 0 ~ 6, there are three golden rules for disciplining children: don't hurt yourself, don't disturb others and don't destroy the environment.

Not hurting yourself is the most basic thing. Make it clear that you can't hurt yourself before children can learn to keep boundaries and protect themselves.

Only when you have the experience of not hurting yourself can you know how to respect others, which is the basis of observing social morality. Let children define boundaries, then keep their own boundaries and respect others' boundaries.

Make six basic rules for children:

1, rude and vulgar behavior is not allowed.

You can't take other people's things, your own things are at your disposal.

3. Where do you take things and put them back?

4, toys and all public goods, whoever gets them first will use them first, and the latecomers must wait.

5. Don't disturb others.

6. apologize for doing something wrong and have the right to ask others to apologize.