In today's society, parents spoil their children endlessly, and teachers can't tell, cultivate or control them. Being a nanny for children is more responsible than being a nanny. We must also teach knitting, take care of all safety and be careful. How to do a good job in education without a teacher? Unqualified teachers, even scum, can pass the examination and supervision, and can be eliminated with heavy punishment. But the teacher's way must be guaranteed. There is hope for education. People's quality can be improved.
If I were a teacher:
First: preschool education, early, good 0-3 first, pay attention to the growth state of children in early childhood, because all organs of children are quite fragile, observe happiness, anger, happiness and physiology, and slowly show their reactions in the process of growth, and you can know strangers through their faces. At this time, children babble and have cute words. As parents or teachers, they are healthy and active.
Second: 3-6 years old, this is the time when children have reached school age. In the training of preschool teachers, it is very important to cultivate children's communication, science, nature and art, especially in large classes, which can adapt to primary school life.
Third, the nine-year compulsory education stage is a special and sensitive stage, which lasts for nine years and is long and short. During this period, children's understanding suddenly changed, their feelings continued to improve, they were curious about the world, and they had doubts about various issues. As parents or teachers, we should establish a healthy outlook on life, values and world outlook, and enlighten and reason the same way. At this time, the golden age of second life will appear, and rebellion will follow.
Fourth, the study pressure of senior three is increasing, and the mind and physiology are basically mature. There is still a stage to treat things. At this time, as parents and teachers, they will gradually understand their children's learning situation, instead of considering their abilities with their grades, giving them more care, helping them solve problems in knowledge or life together, making them forget their troubles and study happily to achieve the expected results.
Fifth, entering the university, this is the stage of self-cultivation. No matter what you do or deal with other things, you will enter adult mode. But here, the parents of the child should pay attention to the law of his or her social activities, encourage him or her to study by themselves, give affirmation, and let him or her gain more social understanding.
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Example is better than words. Teach children by example, be kind-oriented, be quality-oriented, try your best to help people around you and help more people.
Although I am not a teacher, I have the best teacher in my family, my sister, a graduate of Shenzhen University, and party member, an excellent English teacher! She teaches my son, niece and his son English. She is very strict. She got up at 6 am and read English until 7 am. She asked to memorize every lesson and write it five times, not 65: 438+00 times. She said that there is no shortcut to learning English, so she must read, write and recite more! Learn more by yourself, and others can't cram your knowledge into your mind! Learn by yourself! Sometimes I think it's too strict. I secretly complain to my dad that she is too strict with her children. Then you teach, you don't learn, and others are strict. My dad says he agrees with her method! So all the children in my family are good at English, especially my sister's children, and they are good at every subject. I was promoted to senior three this year and got a good score of 408! This is also my sister's credit!
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Hello, I'm a university teacher, and I'm glad to answer your questions. As teachers, we have trained many children from other families, so how should we train our own children? Let me talk about some of my own views, hoping to help you.
0 1. It's actually quite long to give children more time to spend with their teachers, especially primary and secondary school teachers, to prepare lessons, attend classes, correct homework and attend classes in the morning and evening. If you are a class teacher, you will work harder. Many times they come home from work, their children are already asleep, and when they go out in the morning, their children often haven't got up yet. Many teachers tend to neglect the training and education of their own children because of their busy work, and spend their time on other people's children. I hope teachers can spend more time with their children, pay more attention to their growth and don't ignore every step of their growth.
Don't ask too much of your child, be patient. Many teachers are very patient with other children. If you don't understand a topic, you can say it 2-3 times until you understand it, but you are often impatient with your child. How can such a simple topic not be done? I hope that teachers will be more patient when educating their children, and don't put too high demands on children just because they are teachers, which will easily bring unnecessary burdens and pressures to children.
Respect children's hobbies and let them have a happy childhood. As teachers and parents, we should respect children's hobbies, especially when they are young. I think having a happy childhood is more important than learning more knowledge. Therefore, I don't recommend enrolling children in various interest classes since childhood, which makes them very tired unless they are willing to learn.
Conclusion Generally speaking, as teachers' parents, they should spend more time with their children, not set too high expectations and requirements for them, but also respect their hobbies, so that they can have a happy childhood.
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As a real teacher, I want to say that every parent is the most important teacher for children. Everyone knows this sentence, but many people don't think so. They will think that they are doing the right thing as parents. Some of the children's behavior habits are taught by the teacher and have nothing to do with themselves.
As teachers, we have a minimum consensus. No matter how hard you try to teach your child, his parents can't change his subtle habits. Almost all children have exactly the same behavior habits as their parents. How to use them as teachers to teach children? As parents, the first and most important teacher, think about how to train children.
As a teacher and a parent, I often reflect on myself. When I look at the strengths and weaknesses of some children in my class, I will always keep them in mind and reflect on how my children learn their strengths rather than their weaknesses. Slowly, I found that the training effect of some methods I deliberately used was not obvious at all, depending on whether I had done it or not. If I don't have this quality, it's basically wishful thinking for my children to have it.
Finally, I conclude that the most important thing in educating a good child is not how to teach, but how to be yourself and make the relationship between husband and wife love each other, so that the child will be very caring and know how to be filial to the elderly, and the child will be very filial. If you face the positive energy of life and never complain, your child will be sunny and cheerful. Your three views determine the children's three views. Let the real teacher teach the rest of the knowledge. After all, there is specialization in the industry.
My wife and I are both primary school teachers, and we have two treasures at home. They are all boys. Eldest brother is almost seven years old, and he is in the first grade of primary school this fall. The second one is almost three and a half years old and will go to kindergarten this fall.
As a teacher, I have seen the growth of more students, and I still have some ideas about the cultivation of children.
First of all, children should not be too spoiled. We all say that Joule is unfilial, and being too spoiled is far more than unfilial. Teachers' children, in particular, will basically study in their parents' schools. If parents still spoil their children, the effect will be doubled. Before our school, there was a teacher's child who was spoiled. He went to his mother's office to eat snacks after class in the third and fourth grades, and came to his mother for a little thing. The teacher is also a little confused and responsive, which leads to the isolation of the children in the class and the poor results in the end.
I think mothers are more likely to spoil their children, and children are more likely to be presumptuous in front of their mothers. So I put my boss in my school instead of going to school with my mother.
Secondly, we should cultivate children's good habits. Generally speaking, the teacher's schedule is more regular, so the children's schedule will be more regular. In addition, when teachers prepare lessons and read books at home, they will silently set an example for their children, and children will naturally develop a good habit of reading.
Third, it is easier for teachers to help children. For their children, teachers must return to the role of parents and must not replace teachers. We can now give our children proper study guidance from the perspective of parents. For example, this summer vacation, my wife and I gave our boss mathematical thinking training and literacy guidance for about half an hour every day. He enjoyed the process, especially once, because he had an unpleasant thing with his brother, and he was in a great mood. Later, he did mathematical thinking training and did it. I found his mood stabilized and there was a happy smile behind him.
I think teachers must be more patient and tolerant when tutoring children, and they must not beat and scold children at will.
Finally, the holidays of teachers and children are synchronized. This is also a unique benefit for teachers' children. On weekends, you can accompany your children wholeheartedly, study, play, travel and get close to nature together. With these high-quality companionship, the hearts of children and parents are naturally closer and communication is naturally easier.
The above is my personal understanding and thoughts, welcome to communicate with colleagues!
My parents are both teachers, and I hate that they educate me in the way of teachers.
The biggest responsibility of parents is to be good parents first. Good parents give their children unconditional love and let them feel it.
As a teacher's parents, the most common mistake is to give children conditional love. No matter what happens, others should educate and preach. Everything needs a reason, except study. The problem is that what parents say and what children feel are two different things. Too many reasons make children feel bored. This is why many teachers can't teach their children well.
I am now engaged in adolescent psychological counseling, and I am also a half-teacher. For my children, I never talk about all kinds of truths, but teach them carefully by chance. The so-called opportunity teaching is to find suitable opportunities for children to know the truth by themselves. For example, if the child falls, I will definitely let her stand up and let the child know that only she is the most reliable.
At the same time, I will remember my identity. I am a parent first, and my biggest role is to give love to my children, unconditional love, not to sell a few catties. I believe that love can cure everything, so no matter whether parents are teachers or not, as long as there is love, excellent children can be cultivated.
Not being a teacher at school is my regret in my life! However, as parents, my wife and I are still qualified to be teachers for our children. My daughter has started school in the fifth grade and has not participated in any remedial classes aimed at improving her grades. But her grades in all subjects are still very good, and several single subjects are the first in the whole school year (six classes). Since this semester, my wife and I have a clearer division of labor. He teaches all math and I teach all English. Let's discuss Chinese together. Chinese is also the most labor-saving subject. Learning is not the most important thing, we pay more attention to the education of children's character, the cultivation of character and the improvement of comprehensive quality. When my daughter was seven years old, she won the first prize in the national reading contest, participated in the recording of audio books many times, and recorded with famous domestic announcers and hosts. I have participated in countless dance performances. With the increase of grade, the learning task becomes heavier and heavier. In the future, I will focus on my study. My daughter's goal is to enter Peking University in the future, but I think it doesn't matter what she takes. The important thing is not to live up to her youth, work hard and have no regrets. At present, I have encountered a little challenge. My daughter has grown up and is a little rebellious, but I think this is normal and I believe we can get through it smoothly.
I like children very much, sometimes I really want to recruit a few students, train them in an all-round way like my own children, give full play to their nature, and let them grow into confident and useful talents.
As a good teacher, students may not be able to teach their children well, because the learning methods vary from person to person.