2. If parents always take a tough attitude towards their children's stubborn and unreasonable demands, it may make them feel frustrated, make it more difficult for them to accept their parents' rejection and aggravate their resistance. First of all, parents should keep a calm attitude and control their emotions. If the child is crying and rolling, it is best to treat it coldly; If the child is out of control, parents can give him a loving hug.
3. Parents should first make it clear that children's "no" is only to express their own ideas, rather than deliberately singing against their parents. When parents make demands on their children, they also allow them to express their ideas unimpeded, give them the right to choose and respect their choices like adults. In this period, communication between parents and children is very important. Parents should not only give their children full voice, but also take appropriate measures to let their children receive better education from their parents.
Therefore, parents should have a correct attitude and face their children with a tolerant and open mind. Don't put on the dignity of parents and give a "serious" response and education to what children say. A "heavy" conversation like this will make children reduce their desire to communicate with their parents.
5, the child is naughty and disobedient, and the parents' advice is repeated, so that the child can taste the wayward results appropriately. Parents can let their children "hit a wall" in life and experience more failures, so that children can gradually understand and accept the results caused by their actions, and their frustration ability will be stronger.
6. At the age of two, children begin to have the need of self-development, have independent ideology, try to understand the surrounding environment, establish their own likes and dislikes, and express their personal needs. In addition, they also show their abilities to adults by letting him do something by himself, because he feels that his abilities are already very strong. During this period, if children are repeatedly restricted and interfered, they may become obedient and become a Nuo Nuo person. On the other hand, if parents clearly know that the child's practice is wrong, but blindly accommodate, this is undoubtedly conniving at the child.