From primary school to university and even higher level of study, these are all education. From the family point of view, education is an important means for us to train the next generation. From the perspective of financial management, education is also a big money expenditure. No matter what the future holds. Whether you are yourself or a child, you can't do without education. In addition to the expenditure of money, I think it is an understanding of the educational concept.
The planning of education is different from the concept of education. The concept of education is our attitude and understanding of education and our understanding of the world. I've heard this sentence before, what kind of children you have, what kind of educational concept you have. So, what do you think of education? In fact, education is not a matter of one person and one family, but a matter of a group of people. Education is usually a group of children, a group of adults and a group of teachers, drawing on a picture. What this picture looks like, usually the future of the child is what it looks like! There are many factors in painting, which will more or less affect children's growth and cognition of the world. So what I read in the book, the influence my parents gave me, and the understanding of people around me, let's talk about education! Let's look at foreign countries first. I don't think foreign countries pay special attention to education, but the growth of foreign children is completely different from that of China. One of the biggest differences is that foreign education methods are very different from domestic education methods, for example, with developed countries such as the United States. They treat their children with laissez-faire education, and there is not much education in primary and junior high schools. They didn't start learning until their children grew up. And the education they receive is not only the knowledge in books, but also the understanding and experience of society. Their attitude towards learning is that they don't pay much attention to their grades, but care about their children's growth. I remember when I was at school, the Chinese teacher once said that education at home and abroad is different. When we are studying, American children may be playing in their junior high school and senior high school, and they will not really study until they get to college. What they learn is to learn social knowledge first, and then learn the knowledge in books. The teacher once said, he said: Many of our parents are "bookworms", not really useful people. For the country and society, what is more needed is comprehensive and comprehensive compound talents, while from the social point of view, all-round and versatile talents are more popular. For example, you need a computer major and a management major. There are three people coming for an interview, one is a computer major, the other is a management major, and the other is a computer and management major. If you were an entrepreneur, what would you choose? I think ta will choose this person who is more professional in computer and management, and the poor one will choose here. Because this person can benefit no matter what occasion, and the other two can only be in the corresponding major.
The United States is a big educational country as well as a strong educational country. Because America is a multicultural country, reflected in education, American education has formed today's America. The strength of a country will not be strong for no reason, there must be many factors behind it. But when it comes to the strength of the United States, the deepest factor in American education should be the American educational concept. Although I don't know much about it, I have to say that the educational concept is not only a theoretical system, but also a social experience. Their educational ideas have also been accepted and followed by the American government, political parties and people. It is this educational concept that has made a generation of powerful countries. On the other hand, I actually don't know why there are four great inventions, but ancient China didn't have a far-reaching impact. I don't know why the industrial revolution first started abroad, and I don't know why so many great inventions are headlights abroad. Perhaps this is also a place worth thinking about.
In modern society, we all know the educational methods and ideas of the United States. Their university is a melting pot full of creativity and innovation, with independent characteristics. I hope to be a person who refuses vulgarity and adheres to ethical spirit. I used to watch some movies. There are many children at home. Parents let their children work and study by themselves, and the tuition and living expenses are completely created by themselves. I think these are all good. There is indeed something worth learning!
Let's look at education in China. People often say that the Chinese nation has a long history of 5000 years. Although our present education has made progress step by step, there are still some shortcomings. From the very beginning of Confucianism, to home, to a hundred schools, to modern education, education has been passed down for many years, including being the top scholar in ancient times, Tsinghua Peking University. Although their meanings are almost the same, they vary greatly. Being the number one scholar, the ancient poem means carefree life, and now Tsinghua Peking University is just the beginning. Although I think there were many defects in the previous education, I have to say that China is good now! It has not changed since ancient times, and the current educational concept, including now, still thinks so. Under the influence of traditional education concept or ancient education, we always think that education can change our life's destiny. As the old saying goes, as long as it becomesno. 1, it can change our lives and soar directly. However, this is not the case now, including that our society and families now pay too much attention to education and neglect the cultivation of children's adults. It can be said that many of us, many children, and even myself, follow the plans made by our parents. I didn't know anything before I listen to my parents' arrangement, arrange study, arrange work and arrange work. But in the end, we found that we are still following the old path of our parents, or that we are living as our parents once thought, and even now this situation is still commonplace.
Education in the past catered to the needs of our development today, but does today's education still cater to the needs of future development? This is the reason why I was not optimistic about the current situation of education. Although I feel that I have achieved something now, I feel that these roads are all my own. If I had listened to my parents' arrangement, I might still be working hard. Although I am still working hard, my life has changed greatly. I don't have to worry too much about the economy, at least I have money to spend. If you follow the original settings, it is estimated that you are still busy with your life and dare not have too many ideas. I think the current education should be changed, because the current education cannot support a strong China, because what kind of talents a country needs depends on what it needs to do in the next few years? Because education is not something that can be harvested now, but it takes ten years, maybe 20 years, to see the effect. The previous education formed the present society, but what will the present education form for the future? In the past, education paid too much attention to education, or to the study of knowledge, while ignoring an essential problem, that is, people. It can be said that what kind of talents we need should be cultivated. What we want is not a highly educated person who can only talk on paper, but a person who can really work hard and create value. When it comes to big education, we have to mention small education, because the state can't teach anyone. Our first teachers were our parents. It can be said that, to a great extent, parents influence us and the next generation.
Family education is essential in our daily life. Parents not only influence children, but also are their first teachers. If I want to write to my parents, I should not only give them financial support, but also give them spiritual support and cognitive understanding. Don't just pay attention to children's learning, but also pay attention to their growth. In fact, as parents, we all want our children to succeed and our daughters to succeed. As we all know, we should expect our children to grow up. Instead of expecting the son to become a dragon and the daughter to become a phoenix, it is better to let the children grow up to be useful to society. Because today's society is a material society, material makes many people who are not yet open-minded get lost again and again. Parents' education is of vital significance to their children's life. In today's words, is it you who has been trained by his parents for twenty or thirty years and can change in just a few years? Of course, every parent wants his children to achieve something and get ahead, but nothing is perfect and no one is perfect. Many parents have misunderstandings about education, not only by grades, but also by academic qualifications. I think the word education should be read separately, taught separately and taught separately. This has two meanings. The purpose of fishing is to pass on knowledge and educate people. I remember someone once asked me about education. Many parents want to give their children the best educational conditions. Some even put the whole family on board for their children's education, hoping that their children can go to a good school. In my opinion, attaching importance to education should be a good thing, but paying too much attention is beyond our ability, so it may not be a good thing. I remember reading an article called "It's hard to have a baby in a cold door". This story is true, and it is also the current situation. It can be said that it is a reflection of the present society and a comprehensive situation of a family. In fact, it's called studying hard at a cold window for ten years. How can it compare with the efforts of several generations? But from the perspective of ordinary people, the chances of fighting back are slim, but we can change it through the accumulation of each generation.
Here I suddenly thought of insurance and a topic about human nature in insurance. It often happens when you can take insurance, that is, you will give priority to your children and ignore your parents. We may all have this situation, that is, we attach importance to the next generation and ignore the previous generation? This problem does not conform to the tradition of our Chinese nation. We often hear this word, which is called respecting the old and loving the young. In the wisdom of the ancients, why did respect for the elderly come first? We are all thinking about cultivating the next generation, but what was the purpose of cultivating the next generation? Maybe I hoped to have a good old age before, but it backfired. Why don't we put ourselves in the shoes of the elderly? Isn't having children just for a comfortable old age? I think this problem deserves our consideration.
In education, there are many families now. Parents don't even work for their children's education. I have seen the accompanying students before. As a result, the child is excellent, but has no ability to live. This reminds me of a story. A couple had a child in their later years, and they loved the child very much. They don't want him to do anything, even feed him. One day, the old couple wanted to go out and worried that their child was hungry, so they branded a big cake and hung it on the child's chest. They think that if the child is hungry, they can take the cake to their chest to eat. However, when they got home, they found that their children were still starving. The reason is because children don't turn cakes from the back of their necks to the front. Although this is a story, it is somewhat similar to what I just said. Parents pay too much attention to educating their children, but forget to teach them life skills. Finally, even children can't do laundry and cook. How can such people grow into independent talents? Can the cultivated children survive in society? And parents can't stay with their children forever. After all, one day, children will live alone. Therefore, we must treat education moderately, so the first thing to do is to let children grow up, let children adapt to this society, survive in this society, and live well in this society. That's what makes education more meaningful. Education is more about the growth of children. What parents have to do is to fulfill the obligation of children's growth. As for the children's future, it is up to them to create it.
When it comes to details, whether it can stimulate children's enthusiasm for autonomous learning and let them experience the pleasure of seeking knowledge is the biggest difference between the eastern and western educational concepts, and also the difference between our parents in China, which is also the reason for the huge gap between the children trained. The biggest misunderstanding of parents in dealing with this problem in education is to impose their own understanding of education on their children, pass on our own appearance, the appearance of school teachers or the appearance of society to children, and give these important things to children. As we all know, society is changing in ten, twenty and thirty years. What skills do children really need to stand in society? Before talking about the future, let's look at what skills the previous society needs, and then look at what skills the future society needs. It's like we never thought we could buy things without cash before, but now it's really realized, and it's very well realized. Sometimes we may expect too much from our children, and some pay too much for them. In fact, high expectations and imagination are unfair to our children. Giving children too much can easily make them lack creativity, and they may live under the arrangement of their parents all their lives. If you spoil too much, it will easily lead to the formation of the elderly. Wait a minute, we have many shortcomings ourselves, and children can't be perfect in everything.
I have often heard this advertisement before, so that children can win at the starting line. I think it's really funny and naive to let children win at the starting line. There are still many parents who let their children learn this and that at an early age. Preschool children are the most precious, because preschool children are not surrounded by modern human knowledge. They can have many wild ideas and many possible ideas, and their own imagination may be our future. Because of commercial advertisements, let children win at the starting line and enter the heart of comparison, thinking that my children can't lag behind what other children have. In fact, I think it reflects a problem. Why don't you compare with others? Humans, in particular, are social animals. Today, division of labor and cooperation are everywhere. For children, in the future, it is more important to be good at getting along with others, let others like you, identify with you and achieve you. Even in the future, it is very important to have an extraordinary ability to express, observe, improvise, control emotions and resist setbacks.
To sum up, what parents need to teach their children most is rational thinking and sound personality. Not the future. Parents should pave the way for their children and let nature take its course. The future will still be handed over to these young people. The future is their actual combat. The future depends on them to create and fight. What parents need to give their children is proper support. Don't help their children monopolize power. Everything will be done for him. In the final analysis, the pattern and realm of parents is the real starting line for children.
Of course, things have changed now. I have to say that China is good, because in today's era, ordinary people may fight back. Although the chance is slim, it is not without chance. This era is an era worth fighting for, because it won't take long now, and you can get rich returns through struggle. For example, now a person is likely to get a good salary through his own efforts for two or three years, and even become the economic source of a family. These are the results of this era. Look at those who are more successful, and those who are particularly old? Basically not. As for why today's era is worth fighting for, we have to compare it with other countries. Looking at the wealth of other countries, it is basically accumulated in the hands of families, especially in the United States, so-and-so families and the like are basically chaebol. It is seldom heard that the younger generation has made outstanding achievements, but it is different in China. This is an era that can be countered completely, and it is an era that can be changed by our own efforts. I used to see the word "lying flat" on the Internet. I want to say, heaven rewards diligence, and you will get results if you dare to fight. Therefore, we should give full play to children's creativity and imagination, and let children work hard to create in this era.
It is better to expect children to succeed than to expect women to succeed. It is the responsibility of parents to bring up their children to a certain age. Parents can give more help and support or not. Just give your child a warm harbor and leave the future to your child! This is what I want to say to my parents.