The example of parents facing setbacks is that words and deeds are often more important than words and deeds. Parents talk about making children strong and reasonable, so when children really face setbacks, parents' behavioral responses are not so important.
Some parents, when their children fail the exam, or do something that makes them lose face, the first consideration is not to protect their children's self-esteem or understand their children, but to control their emotions first and start nagging, criticizing and accusing their children of their mistakes. This sets a very bad example for children. Children will feel that their parents are so angry, hysterical or excited, which shows that it is a terrible thing to encounter failure and frustration, just like a disaster. In this case, how to improve children's ability to resist setbacks?
The correct way is that when children encounter setbacks, parents need to be able to jump out emotionally, treat their children's temporary failures or setbacks with a peaceful attitude, listen to their children's pain of failure, patiently accompany and encourage them, and make them feel that the temporary setbacks are not very serious. Here, the emotional information conveyed by parents is very important. A peaceful and inclusive attitude will make children calm down faster and treat setbacks and failures with a normal heart.
The mistakes and problems that children must experience. /kloc-what are the best setbacks in life before the age of 0/8?
1. My friend went out to play without invitation.
2. Not invited to a friend's birthday party.
3. Experience the death of a pet or a small tree planted by yourself.
I spent a lot of time writing my thesis, but my grades are still not satisfactory.
The car broke down when going out.
6. I was told that the class activities or projects I wanted to go to were full.
7. I missed a performance because I helped the old people.
8. Be accused for no reason.
9. I was beaten by another child.
10, a bad exam.