Beating and scolding children will definitely? Tame? Be an obedient child? Using this rude oppression to make the child yield will not let the child understand the real mistake. Frequent beating and cursing may make a child feel insecure, because he doesn't know why he was beaten and what he should do to avoid being beaten. Then he will be timid in everything he does and have uncertain ideas. Whether it is a child or an adult, this idea will always haunt him like a nightmare. In the worst case, it will cause him to suffer for life.
In addition, frequent beating and cursing may also lead children to become more rebellious. He may always remember these beaten experiences. When he reaches puberty or grows up, he may release these grievances, resort to violence against others and become a member of a mixed society. His life is often gloomy, and those violence may accompany him all his life. Of course, some parents may think that their children will know their own health when they grow up, but I don't think random and unprovoked beating and scolding will play this role. Children are more likely to choose to break up and pass on these bad things to the next generation.
Beating and cursing can be used as a necessary means of education, but it is often the most severe means of education. At the same time, parents need to let him know why he was beaten and what to do after being beaten. Parents should also learn to reconcile with their children, apologize to their children and reward them after they correct their mistakes. Only in this way can the child's inner trauma and childhood shadow be avoided. It is not advisable to beat and scold at will, which may lead to children? Born into a family? Trauma.