The top ten wisdom teaches children how to behave, and children's education should be paid attention to. Children will have different problems at different stages, and the happiest thing for children is to get their parents' approval. Now share ten wisdom to teach children to be human.
Ten wisdom to teach children to be human 1 1. Confused wisdom: On the surface, you seem to know nothing, but in fact you know better than anyone else.
Confused people usually speak with language, not that they can't speak, to prevent disasters from coming out of their mouths. 80% of the small talk is nonsense. Even so, unconsciously added emotional color, the speaker unintentionally, the listener intentionally, and the disaster began. Some people take some alarmist words out of context and spread them around so that you can't argue. It's better not to say so that others won't know your depth and won't dare to start work on you. This shows confused wisdom.
Second, the wisdom of self-defense: clear-headed, seemingly confused.
The highest state of being a man is simplicity and stupidity. You know everything, but you look stupid. This kind of person is not unassuming, superior and approachable, but is more popular with everyone. Society is realistic, and people's hearts are more unpredictable. When you are smart and sharp-edged, you will be envied. So why bother? Showing off yourself is nothing more than trying to make others look up to you, nothing more than vanity and light on your face. But when you are excluded from the officialdom and the workplace and can't show off at will, I wonder if you are smart enough to get into trouble.
Third, the wisdom of the mouth: don't be arrogant, no matter who is short.
There are not a few people who suffer from writing. The reason is nothing more than the love of anger, the love of talking about people and gossip. The most wronged are those people. Unintentional words are hearsay, taken out of context, and cause eternal hatred. So, if you are careful from the beginning, can't you avoid a lot of trouble? When dealing with people, don't forget the proverb "disaster comes from the mouth"
Fourth, the wisdom of forbearance: knowing men and keeping women, taking retreat as progress.
The real heroes are those who can bend and stretch. No one is rich all his life. Therefore, when he is proud, he deserves to be proud, but when he is frustrated, he can't just be depressed. He should save his strength and make a comeback. At this time, forbearance is the only way to taste all the flavors of life. Endure when you are frustrated, that is, know that men are loyal to women and take retreat as progress.
Verb (short for verb) contains. Wisdom: Harmony is the most important, and tolerance is generous.
Confusion is a kind of generosity, it is rubbing sand in the eyes, and it is tolerance and generosity that value harmony. Forgive others and forgive others. There are many friends and many roads. When you tolerate others, you accumulate human feelings for yourself. There are hundreds of rivers and great tolerance; People are tolerant, and things are easy.
Sixth, the wisdom of being a man: stupid on the surface, smart inside.
People can't be too smart or too picky, but they are usually a little confused and leave room for others. This is the win-win road. Of course, you can be confused on the surface, but you should make a small plan in your mind and adjust yourself from time to time. Take a long view, don't stare at other people's shortcomings, and know how to eat small losses and earn big losses.
Seven, the wisdom of survival: flexible, calm and cautious.
Go to see the Zen master alone. The door of the monastery was so short that he didn't pay attention and hit his head. The Zen master told him that if you don't touch your head, you must learn to bow your head. So do people.
Eight, the wisdom of communication: good at "confusing the audience" and wide popularity.
In communication situations, there is truth and falsehood, and it is impossible to tell the truth from the falsehood. Some people can take their words seriously, while others don't. A confusing person can make friends with anyone, even if others offend him, he can still smile. If you don't take everything seriously, you will avoid contradictions and live in harmony.
Nine, wisdom: deliberately showing weakness and playing dumb.
Horses stumble, people stumble, behave yourself, can you be careful? A small fall hurts, but a big fall hurts. What should be understood is: at first, deliberately showing weakness and pretending to be confused, can't you avoid falling high?
Ten, the wisdom of self-cultivation: contentment is always happy.
The muddleheaded outlook on life is to be optimistic about life and content with the status quo. He can see everything, so he is indifferent and happy. If you want to have philosophy, you must have a normal heart, let everything go with the flow, regardless of right and wrong, and laugh at the flowers in front of the court. Life is less than 100 years old, so why worry about being chitose? Forget the unpleasant things in life, don't force anything, isn't it chic?
According to the progress and evolution of society, some parents now mistakenly think that money is enough, as long as their children can have money in the future, they will do anything and be afraid of nothing. Money is very important, but money is not everything. There is an essential difference between how money comes from, whether it is right or wrong.
Therefore, only by educating children to be honest people can children get corresponding rewards through the right path, through their own efforts and through their own creative work. If you can get money by hook or by crook, educated children are likely to go astray and even develop into people who are harmful to society.
Now some parents are keen to develop their children's intelligence, give them early education, let them study hard and go to college in the future. It is absolutely necessary to attach importance to intellectual development and early education. Whether a child can go to college is closely related to the degree of his intellectual development, but whether a child can go to college is not entirely determined by his intellectual development.
According to the author's investigation and study, there are many factors that affect exam results, and intelligence is one of them. Children's mental health status, children's psychological dynamic system, such as motivation, interest, personality, will, etc. Are closely related to children's early intellectual development and test scores.
Our parents should straighten out the status and relationship between intellectual education and life education. Children's intellectual development will not have stamina if they blindly carry out so-called intellectual education and ignore life education. Even if the intelligence develops, it often can't get the intelligence effect. Only by doing a good job in life education and educating children to be kind, upright and selfless can we give full play to children's intellectual effects.
If our parents blindly pursue intellectual education and ignore life education, then the children's intellectual development is insufficient and may go astray under certain conditions.
It is necessary to educate children about truth, goodness and beauty, combine their age, characteristics and specific mentality, and adopt enlightening guidance methods to help children analyze and criticize some false, evil and ugly phenomena in real life, so that children can learn to distinguish truth, goodness, beauty from falsehood, evil and ugliness. When educating children about truth, goodness and beauty, we should focus on the big picture, start from small things, stand high and look far, so as to cultivate qualified talents for the society.
At different stages of children's growth, the education of being a man is different, and the specific educational contents and methods are also different. The core of life education is to establish an idea: study hard and prepare for serving the society in the future. No matter what job you do, no matter how high or low your position is, it should be beneficial to society. Teach children never to do bad things and never to do things harmful to society.