One? A 7-year-old boy was chopped by his mother with a kitchen knife? The news has aroused everyone's concern about parents' domestic violence against their children. In our real life, there are really many parents who educate their children in this way. Do you always want to? A dutiful son is born under the stick? ,? Not if you don't fight? .
However, this kind of education will really do great harm to children.
Children who are beaten will have shadows in their hearts and will not feel the warmth and love from home. Parents are the best teachers and the people who teach their children the most. When a child is beaten for doing something wrong, the child must feel wronged, because for children, no one has ever taught them what is right and wrong, they are just trying something new.
What parents do at this time will seriously hurt their children's desire to explore the world and will create a shadow in their hearts. As long as they start a new exploration, they may be defeated.
It will become an inertia for parents to beat their children, and the silent tolerance of children will be regarded as a compromise by parents. When parents think that hitting their children is the easiest way to realize themselves, the child's disaster begins.
In later life, children may be beaten by their parents as long as they do something slightly against their parents' wishes. However, it is not objective enough for parents to judge their children with their own value system. In addition, in some cases, when parents are emotionally excited, they may also use beating their children as a way to vent their negative emotions.
It is too harmful for parents to beat their children, and the psychological area of children can't be calculated, and the detours that children may take on the road of growth can't be measured. Maybe some parents think this is the best way to educate their children, but it will really hurt the feelings between you and your children.
Learn to be kind to your children and let them go faster and further on the road of growth.