Tutor's experience summary 1
Each of our parents hopes that our children will succeed in the future. Perhaps from the birth of a child, I feel that he (she) is outstanding in all aspects, and parents' hopes are always good. However, due to the different psychological characteristics of children of different ages and grades, the ways and methods of education can vary from time to time. Below, combined with my own experience and the experience of my colleagues, I would like to talk about a little superficial understanding:
The first is to learn from family education experience. As the saying goes:? Educators must be educated first? . We can't apply the old methods our parents taught us to us. Usually, I learn some methods by reading books, surfing the Internet and consulting my successful colleagues. I feel that there are many parenting methods for us to choose from nowadays. However, whether we see Montessori education abroad or the story of three moves in ancient Meng Mu, we can only get some enlightenment from it and learn from it in our own parenting education, because every child is different.
The second is to maintain a healthy attitude. If we want our children to have a healthy psychology, we parents should overcome the phenomenon of impetuousness and quick success, strive to maintain a normal mind, pay attention to children's scores, not the whole, and care about their hearts. Get down? Being friends with children, when things go wrong, parents' qualities such as calmness, patience and perseverance will often subtly infect children. In fact, many of our parents have long realized that these factors are also very necessary and even crucial for a person's success.
The third is to pay attention to cultivating habits. I think it is necessary for children to develop good study habits and living habits from an early age. There is an English proverb: Action forms habit, habit forms character, and character determines fate. ? It can be seen that habits play an important role in people's life. I mainly give guidance and supervision in time arrangement, neat handwriting, independent thinking and introspection. At the same time, use various opportunities to teach children to use knowledge flexibly, don't memorize it by rote, and learn to draw inferences from others.
The fourth is to insist on encouragement. I once asked myself, a child's mind is like a blank sheet of paper, how can I draw the most beautiful picture on it? In the face of parents' reprimand and punishment, children's vacant eyes and dull movements not only make us feel helpless, but sometimes a little incompetence passes through our hearts. Experts say it well? Children are all bragging! ? Every child's progress needs encouragement. I feel that every time parents approve, their eyes are a booster for their children's progress, and sincere praise is a stone to increase his confidence.
Tutor's experience summary II
I taught several classes in the summer vacation, and now it's all over. Looking back on all this has touched me a lot, and I can get it off my chest quickly.
It's really a headache to take a few third-grade children to learn Olympic Mathematics, and it's not just painful. Everyone in the world knows that it is basically impossible to learn olympiad well without mathematical cells and poor computing ability. It happened that only one of these children was clever, and the others didn't even understand basic mathematical calculations and methods. I won't know until I ask. My parents forced me to study. Why? Because 80% of the students in the class are studying Olympic Mathematics. If you don't study, it seems that children are worse than others. I sympathize with these children, who have suffered so much pressure at such a young age. Teaching is really time-consuming and laborious. It takes a long time to teach a simple math method, and their mouths are worn out. They are still in the fog, just let them understand a mathematical idea, and they may forget it the next day. It really makes people want to cry!
I have been attending cram schools since the first grade of primary school. I don't think many children really want to. Parents' desire for success is understandable, but children are so young that they have to bear such a heavy burden. From a very young age, compared with other children, children's childhood is wasted in meaningless time until they grow up? Compare? I really feel sorry for these children today! Looking back on our childhood, we basically spent it in carefree and happy play. Without their troubles now, it is really different!
Among the classes I have attended, the classes from primary school to junior high school left a deep impression on me. More than a dozen students have a good overall foundation, good acceptance and comfortable teaching. Every time the classroom atmosphere is very active, even a little naughty. I am a carrot and stick to them. I played some jokes in class and played a lot of jokes. Sometimes they are too naughty. I changed my face and even yelled at some naughty students to get out. Several times, I almost kicked over some naughty students' desks. They suddenly became quiet. When I became friendly, hehe, they soon became nonchalant. Children nowadays are very good at looking into other people's eyes. I felt a sense of loss when I parted from them, and I could not bear to part with them. Several students asked me if I would have the opportunity to teach them in the future. A brief comment on each of them points out their strengths and points of attention, as well as their blessings and expectations. I hope they can be happy and live a full and comfortable life every day in their future life and study. Hope to see you again!
The summer vacation came like this. After teaching and playing for a month, I feel that I have lived a full life, learned a lot, explored my previously neglected potential and exercised my ability. A new life is about to begin, and the challenges are unprecedented and arduous. Have you started to step into it? Are you on track? Meet new challenges!
Tutor's experience summary III
As the saying goes? Things are rare? Today's children are all only children, and everyone in the family can't put it down. At the same time, everyone realizes that children are becoming more and more difficult to manage. Many parents have the same experience, but now family education is very important and no one can ignore it. Let me talk about my own experience:
1. Are the parents children's? Cloning? Object, parents are imitators and role models of all children's behaviors. For example, I read in a magazine that at the weekend, a young mother went to the kindergarten to pick up her child and found a scar on her face. Did the school kids catch it? The child nodded. Mom is angry: why don't you arrest him? Mom won't cut your nails this Sunday, so you caught him on Monday! ? It's really sad and pathetic. Can children who grow up in this almost morbid educational environment develop good moral character? What will happen in the future?
Second, don't always? What happened to the other children? . Sometimes when I visit relatives and friends, I always hear friends say that my child: Look, you got 85 points in this exam. How did the children next door get 100? You are useless, wooden head. ? You know what parents say is just the opposite. The child will certainly feel uncomfortable. Examination results can't completely measure a person's study. My child's exam results are sometimes average, but I never criticize him, analyze the exam questions and encourage him to do better next time. Children always nod and smile with satisfaction.
Third, children have the same self-esteem. Some parents always like to say that their children are bad in front of others. For example, in front of their children, their children have just been obedient and achieved good academic results, but they say that their children are not as obedient as other children and do not study well. On the contrary, children are rebellious, and children should think, I did so well, and my parents said I didn't do well. Anyway, the good is not good, and the bad is so bad, I simply didn't do it well.
Fourth, teach from childhood and change from childhood. I have a deep understanding of this. I saw a movie "Juvenile Delinquency" when I was a child. Perhaps everyone has seen the children in the play divorced from their parents since childhood, and lacked their parents' education since childhood, let alone corrected it, which led to such a tragic ending. So, I'm interested in children? Teach from childhood, change from childhood? Pay more attention, whatever it is. For example, should we shout at dinner? Mom and dad eat? .
Fifth, don't always stare at children's shortcomings. My child's single greatest weakness is willfulness. He can do whatever he wants. Sometimes he comes home from school. He does his homework for about half an hour. Half an hour later, he began to feel around and began to bargain with me. For example, the teacher arranged to go home and copy the new words learned in today's class. He told me, mom, I will finish this, and the other two will wait for a game or dinner. At this time, I will give it to him according to the amount of homework I will do at home today. Sentence? If there is not much homework at home, I will definitely let him play, because if you don't let his children write and don't care, they will cry and even talk back to me. Some parents will think that the child is so willful that he will definitely not get ahead, so he will be killed with a stick, and he will be ignored at ordinary times, thinking that the child is? And the result? .
Sixth, never cover up your mistakes for your children. Teachers' shielding and parents' justifying their faults will lead children astray and even lead to crime. Therefore, I think that as every parent, we should not ignore this point.
Seven, no violence? Conquer? Son, in the fifth chapter, I talked about the waywardness of children. In the past, when a child lost his temper willfully, his father would hit him or scare him, but the child wouldn't listen and said, Dad, you hit me now. Call 1 10 when I grow up and ask the police uncle to take you away. . Now I take the fifth rule, don't always stare at the child's shortcomings, don't use violence, reason with him, and sometimes adopt his ideas and consciousness. On the contrary, it's much better now. The Chinese teacher also praised Li Yang for writing now and making progress in other aspects.
Eight, don't treat TV as? Nanny? . Some parents are busy with work, and now the school has two days off every week. These two days, parents are afraid that one of their children will get into trouble and the other will be unsafe. They simply lock the door for their children to watch TV at home and use TV as a nanny. In fact, from this perspective, this is very unscientific. His father and I are also busy at ordinary times. I'm in business, and sometimes I have to travel. His father is a soldier, and he must serve in the army. Sometimes he has to go to other places for meetings and training. Children are often left unattended on weekends, but I don't leave them at home and I don't take TV as a nanny. For the first time, I think watching TV will affect children's eyesight. Secondly, some life films and TV dramas on TV are too exposed and easy to mislead them. Therefore, in this case, I will take care of my car and take my children with me. He can read in the car and sleep when he is tired. At the same time, he will see many strange things outside. I was on a business trip in Shaoxing once, and I also brought Li Yang. It happened that the farmers were busy farming, and the children were surprised to see the cows plowing the fields. One sees the cow, the other sees the cow in the plow, and they can be plowed together, so I think that although
Tutor's experience summary 4
Friends who have experienced the transition from primary school students to junior high school students know that the junior high school stage is more stressful than the primary school stage. Take mathematics as an example, it is a subject that needs good logical thinking ability, and it is a difficult point for most students, so I have collected a series of counseling experiences on mathematics learning here.
(1) Make a reasonable study plan and check its implementation in time.
1) Make a study plan that suits your actual situation. We should have a good grasp of our current actual cultural level and knowledge. This is an intention to learn, an arrangement, so as to acquire and master knowledge step by step.
2) Have clear learning objectives. Through a stage of study, it should be very clear what level to reach and what knowledge to master before making a study plan.
3) Long-term goals and short-term arrangements should be combined with each other. It is necessary to make a long-term plan first, and then determine the short-term study arrangement to promote the realization of the long-term study plan.
4) Arrange the plan reasonably. The plan should not be too rigid, so we should leave room for it, and make appropriate adjustments in time according to the new situation in the implementation process.
5) Measures should be implemented effectively. Once the plan is determined, it must be carried out in strict accordance with the plan, and a self-checklist for the implementation of the plan can be attached to supervise the completion of the learning objectives on time.
(2) Make preparations before class to improve the efficiency of attending classes.
Preview is the initial link in the learning process and plays a very important role in improving learning efficiency. Through preview, we can know the main contents, key points and difficulties of the course to be studied, and understand our own shortcomings, so as to make preparations in advance, attend classes with a clear aim, and improve the efficiency of attending classes. The task of preview is to understand and perceive the content of the new lesson (such as concepts, definitions, formulas, demonstration methods, etc. Through preliminary reading, it clears the way for a smooth understanding of the new lesson.
1) The best time to preview is from 8: 00 pm to 9: 00 pm, when people's memory, intelligence and energy are at their best. During this time, previewing can get twice the result with half the effort. The preparation time for a single subject is generally controlled at 15 minutes to about 30 minutes.
2) Two ideal preview methods:
Preview before class:
A) Rough reading, first browse the relevant contents of the textbook, and have a general understanding of the knowledge in this section, that is, the general content.
B) Read carefully and repeatedly, understand and think about important concepts, formulas, rules and theorems, pay attention to the formation process of these knowledge, understand the weight and difficulty of the course content, the relationship between old and new knowledge and the position and significance of new knowledge in the subject system, mark the concepts that are difficult to understand, so as to listen to the class with questions, then do exercises, check what you have mastered in preview through the exercises, and finally bring what you don't understand.
B. (suitable for some students with higher ability):
A) Try to do exercises first, and see if you can solve some new knowledge based on what you have already learned, and then enjoy the new knowledge in the textbook. Sometimes you can also use in-class preview or unit preview.
The specific tasks are: review, consolidate and review the old knowledge you have learned, find out the problems you don't understand in the new lesson, and write them down; Get a preliminary understanding of the basic contents of the new course, which are all built on the original basis, and find out the new knowledge points in the book, the key points, difficulties and incomprehensible places in this section; Look, think and do together when previewing.
(3) listen to each class, solve doubts and doubts, and absorb new knowledge.
Before class, you should prepare books, pens, notebooks, etc. You need to stay energetic in class. In class, we devote ourselves to classroom learning. Modern psychology shows that it is extremely important for all kinds of senses to participate in activities at the same time to improve the efficiency of brain work, including hearing, vision, heart, mouth and hands.
Ear-listening: It means listening attentively to the teacher how to teach, how to analyze problems and how to sum up.
Eye-catching: while listening to the lecture, read textbooks and blackboard books, and watch the teacher demonstrate the expressions, gestures and actions of the experiment.
Heart orientation: concentrate, avoid distractions, have clear learning goals and enhance learning awareness.
Oral English: Even under the guidance of the teacher, you can take the initiative to answer questions or participate in discussions, so as to avoid distraction.
Get it: take notes (key points, problems, ideas and methods to solve problems, and your own feelings and opinions).
(4) Review well to reduce forgetfulness.
Review is an important link in the learning process. Make a brief record of the main points and thinking methods in class for review, digestion and thinking. Thinking plays an important role in learning: overcoming forgetting, consolidating memory, deepening understanding and digesting knowledge are also important measures to lay the foundation for new knowledge.
⑤ Make a summary or generalization to improve the understanding of knowledge.
When you make a unit summary or term summary, do something like this: read books, take notes and practice. Look, remember and be familiar with what you have learned; Two columns: list the framework of relevant knowledge points, mark the key points and difficulties, and list the relationship between knowledge points; Three do: purposefully, emphatically and selectively solve some exercises of various grades and types, and find and solve problems through problem solving and feedback. Finally, it summarizes all kinds of questions and problem-solving methods that reflect the knowledge learned.
6. Do exercises to strengthen and consolidate the new knowledge structure.
In review, we should look at and do some questions properly. The selected questions should be selected around the review center. Before solving the problem, we should first recall the ideas we have done in the past and then do the problem on this basis. The purpose of doing the problem is to check your review effect, deepen your understanding of knowledge and cultivate your ability to solve problems. Doing comprehensive questions can deepen the understanding of the complete system of knowledge and cultivate the ability of comprehensive application of knowledge.
⑦ Reasonable arrangement of study time
1) The arrangement of study time should obey the study content. There are primary and secondary learning contents and detailed learning contents, so we should arrange the time reasonably according to the learning contents so as not to waste time. Leave some time to read textbooks, take notes, review past knowledge points, think about what the teacher said that day, and summarize what he learned that day.
2) Make full use of sporadic time. Sporadic time seems to be very few, and the use value is very small. Every little makes a mickle, and it is very precious to collect sporadic time.
3) Improve the efficiency of time utilization. A person's energy can't remain equally vigorous at all times of the day. According to their own characteristics, reasonable arrangement of priorities and allocation of time can get twice the result with half the effort. In addition, we should pay attention to the combination of work and rest, which is also an important aspect to ensure the efficiency of time use. Only those who can rest can work.
Tutor's experience summary five
Good evening. I'm Meng Xiang's mother, and I'm glad to take this opportunity to talk to you about children's education.
To educate children well, I think we should first be a qualified good parent. To be a qualified parent, you must be a responsible parent. How to be a responsible parent, I think we can start from the following three points:
1, be a good father and mother of a child.
To be a good parent, you must understand and take care of all aspects of your child's life. I believe all of you here have done an excellent job in this regard.
2. Be a good teacher for children.
Some parents think that children with teachers will be better educated than our parents. In fact, parents are the children's first teachers and close teachers. Life is education. In our daily life, education is everywhere. As long as parents are careful, we will find that sometimes we can teach our children better than teachers. When Meng Xiang was a child, she and I walked along the roadside, and we could talk about everything for a long time. For example, when I see fallen leaves on the roadside, I will inspire her to observe first and then say it in one sentence. She would say: the leaves are falling. I encouraged her to talk well first, and then inspired her how the leaves fell. She will continue to say that the leaves are falling slowly. In this way, several times in a row, you can say a long paragraph of relatively complete and specific words. Children's observation ability and language development ability will also be improved a lot. With the joint efforts of teachers and parents, children will certainly be better.
3. Be a good friend of children.
Nowadays, children are basically only children, and children are lonely. Our parents can be their best friends. At home, I often play games with Meng Xiang, flying chess and checkers, and I often play word solitaire and story solitaire with Meng Xiang. In this way, the distance between parents and children will be closer, and we can also relax and go back to childhood.
The above points are my personal thoughts. I believe everyone here must have a better way to educate their children. I hope I can listen to your thoughts when I have time. Thank you!