There are many educational methods and ideas in China, but what are the educational methods and ideas of China people? What are the parenting styles of parents in China? Educational methods can determine the growth of children. Let's take a look.
China's educational methods and ideas 1 China's school education-"dazzling driving skills"
In China, being admitted to a famous university is the wish of many children and parents. However, we must understand that most schools in China have serious problems.
First of all, many school leaders in our country, like professional racing drivers, are considering how to show their skilled driving skills, but they don't know where to drive. In other words, colleges and universities have not considered what kind of people cultural education should cultivate. No country's culture and education is so dazzling as China. School leaders always want colleges and universities to be different today from yesterday, and tomorrow from today. Secondly, China's school education lacks culture and art, but it is full of slogans, but it does not fall to the ground. If we compare China's universities with overseas ones, no country's university leaders are full of slogans and core concepts like China, but what we lack most is practice; Thirdly, everyone's school education has not perfected the logic of "herding sheep": reading, learning Olympic Mathematics, going to college, finding a good job, then buying a car, buying a house, marrying, then having children, and then the children studying and learning Olympic Mathematics ... Is it the result of everyone's cultural education? Obviously not. Finally, everyone's educational value is initially professional knowledge conservatism, and colleges and universities give students as much professional knowledge as possible; Then there is the conservatism of working ability. We let students have all kinds of working ability and deal with all kinds of problems. However, no matter whether it is equipment or equipment, students are not regarded as tough guys, and the basic characteristics such as civic awareness, daily life, feelings, getting along with each other and compassion are ignored. Colleges and universities in China shout the slogan of "people-oriented" the loudest, but "cultural education in China is really the least people-oriented".
"How to become a good university?
In fact, cultural education in colleges and universities is the daily life of communication between teachers and students, and children must be fully developed in this daily life. The purpose of independent innovation is to improve the quality of life in colleges and create a stronger school education. Therefore, a good school education is nothing more than showing students a high-quality study life. It is necessary to integrate students' resources scientifically and reasonably.
In a good university, students should not be bound by the development trend, and their desire for diversified development trends should be valued, understood, inspired and applied in today's universities; Personal care should be given to students, especially spiritual essence and spiritual care; Colleges and universities should create a harmonious interpersonal atmosphere. If students can't find super idols and people they admire on campus, they won't develop well easily, and they won't feel happy in their daily life during their study and training in this college. Therefore, we should cultivate some teachers that students love and admire; Attention should be paid to students' diversified values. For example, at the excellent student commendation meeting in our college, the students chose two students to speak, one was a sunny girl and the other was the captain of the basketball club, although their exam results were not the best. Among a group of young people, such children should become super idols, because they will give this group an enterprising, unyielding and United character; The design style of school education should reflect the fairness, democratization, concern, understanding, tolerance and application between teachers and students. This kind of contact requires teacher-student relationship, mutual learning, mutual help and friendly exchange.
Generally speaking, learning and training are not simple cognitive abilities. We must understand the cultural education in colleges and universities from the perspective of children's all-round development. Colleges and universities are not a bookstore, but a social development. Nowadays, cultural education in China pays too much attention to professional skills and training, and seriously ignores the spiritual essence, inner and physical and mental health. Only the latter kind of cultural education can be regarded as a cultural education that really cares about students' lives.
"Parenting education: Don't be keen on" rushing to run "
In many places, we often hear parents say, "I also feel free to give my children to everyone!" " "It sounds like parents expressing their trust in teachers and colleges, but in addition, you can understand in another way that parents are shirking their obligation to educate their children. In fact, parents and universities must work together to solve the problem of children's education. There are many problems in school education in China, but it must be understood that attending a famous university is not as important as parents.
Now the Olympic Games in primary school has started in kindergarten, and kindergarten has just started to divide fast classes and slow classes. Today, there are many situations in our social development that show that everyone pays more attention to "rushing to run". In fact, the road of life is a marathon, and everyone will watch the half marathon. In fact, it doesn't matter who stands in the first row or the second row in the case of sprint. Even after running 10000 meters, you can't decide who is the first, who is the second and who is the first to reach the finish line. However, today, many parents are desperate to "rush to run", and no one in China is as keen on "rushing to run" as the parents of students in China today.
In fact, "running in a hurry" is not so necessary. Parents' forced "rushing" will lose the most natural and happiest happiness in the family. Parenting education should not be over-visualized or over-innovative. Harmonious home, harmonious home is the most important. With a harmonious home, children can develop naturally and happily at home. I believe that children's education must be successful. Regarding whether to learn a lot of things so early, my personal suggestion is to expect parents not to pay attention to "rushing to run". Looking forward to a more objective view of today's parenting education and children's growth.
"How to carry out good parenting education?
A survey was conducted before Beijing No.4 Middle School, and 87% of the students felt that his personality characteristics and personality came from his parents, and 80% of the responsibility for this result depended on his parents. This shows that many hot issues in education are irreplaceable by teachers. Newborn children make no difference. Why is it that after three, six and nine years of development, it has become very different and got rid of different roads? This difference is caused by family. This difference occurs before children enter colleges and universities, not after children enter colleges and universities, and even many differences occur at home after children enter colleges and universities. As we all know, parents and the elderly cherish their offspring, but this kind of cherish is usually not worth the loss, and parents may be the first culprit leading to their children's unfortunate life path.
What kind of culture and education is the best? This is a difficult problem with no answer. Education is both plastic arts and scientific research. The standard of cultural education is scientific research, and the way of cultural education is plastic arts. Scientific research means that it will not succeed if it is violated, and plastic arts means that this method can be adopted under normal scientific research conditions.
How to carry out parenting education, I summed up several life proverbs of parenting education and advocated parents to carry out cultural education:
1. Parenting education determines a child's life. Don't think that going to a famous university is a decision-making life;
The relationship between husband and wife is always the first key. Don't put children first. However, it is unfortunate to put children first and wait for most families. Therefore, in the case of building their own natural environment in parenting education, we must first think of harmonious communication between husband and wife;
3. Always keep communication, parents' words and deeds will endanger children's lives;
All the shortcomings and advantages of children are related to their parents. Without understanding children, there will be no successful culture and education;
China's Educational Methods and Educational Concepts 2 The first knife: Cut off democracy and plant the seeds of power.
In the traditional China family, parents are emperors. They don't compromise, they force their children to decide what to do and can't do anything. But have we achieved the most basic democracy in family life? For example, have parents ever asked their children for advice on matters involving their interests? When there is a dispute within the family, whether it makes sense or not, parents are always used to using simple and rude methods to make decisions instead of their children in the name of "everything is for your own good".
The second knife: cut off love and plant selfish seeds.
Have you ever noticed that when you and your brother had a big fight face to face about how to raise your elderly parents, and your sister had a big fight about how to divide your parents' inheritance, a pair of frightened eyes were watching your performance in disbelief?
When you saw a thief breaking into a neighbor's door and pulling his son away in a hurry, did you find that his other hand was a fist? When your daughter told you that the faucet in the community garden was broken, did you pick up the tools to repair it or call the property right away, or told her to mind her own business? You pretended not to see the old man who couldn't stand on the bus. When the child wanted to get up and give up his seat, you stopped him with your eyes. Your performance is part of the subtle family education for your children. Every move you make, in his young mind, cuts off the love for children and plants the seeds of selfishness.
The third knife: cut off honesty and plant the seeds of lying.
Once a child knows how to lie, he can avoid being beaten or scolded, or let the physical pain come as late as possible, and he may gradually become an expert in lying. Children are forced to lie. If telling the truth can benefit, who is willing to risk lying? Many children have a puzzle-why do adults lie and children don't? When the child thinks about this problem, it shows that he has found that adults often lie. We often explain to our children that our lies are "good". But for children, whether it is good or bad, it is a lie!
The fourth knife: cut off adventure and plant the seeds of mediocrity.
The child who wants to swim in the river does not teach him how to ensure his safety in the water, but simply refuses-the reason is of course dangerous. It is also safe and not allowed for children to climb mountains. Children are in their teens, so they dare not go to the canteen to buy a bottle of soy sauce alone, because the street is dangerous. I won't peel the apple myself, because the knife is dangerous. Twenty-year-olds can't cook with fire because gas is dangerous.
Yes! Now the society is a bit chaotic. It is dangerous to go out, but not safe at home. But how can they grow up if we hold them all the time? A child who cannot experience any danger must be mediocre. Danger is everywhere, and hiding can't solve the problem The key is to teach children to know the danger and deal with the crisis!
The fifth knife: cut off discipline and plant illegal seeds.
Children who cross the street by themselves rarely run red lights. Children will also ride bicycles on bicycle lanes in an appropriate way. When children are in kindergarten, they recite the formula "stop at the red light and go at the green light". But when they go shopping with their parents, they are always dragged by adults not to take crosswalks, underpasses or footbridges, but to cross the railing and cross the road. The excuse of adults is that I am busy and in a hurry. I don't know if this knife makes children realize that the rules can be disobeyed and their own interests outweigh the seriousness of the rules.