In the program, Chen Ruoyi secretly shed tears because of her mother-in-law's strong criticism. Many people think that Chen Ruoyi is too modest. In the face of a strong mother-in-law, he never dared to resist or refuse. He just blindly accepted the compromise. In this way, even if you compromise, he will not feel wronged, but the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be more serious. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not come from one side, but the final result of friction between the two sides. To better handle the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we must straighten out our identity and clarify our relationship with mother-in-law.
Many people get along with their mother-in-law or daughter-in-law as enemies, so they are psychologically alert and dissatisfied from the beginning. In the process of getting along, a little friction will ignite the war between each other, so at the beginning, you should tell yourself that he is your family and he will be with you for many years. Try to treat him as your own relative and don't put the other person in a hostile position.
Communicate actively when you encounter problems, and don't choose to complain or compromise to solve problems. Many times, you think that you have repeatedly made concessions and constantly compromised, but the other party feels that you have no attitude to solve the problem at all, and you are not aware of your mistakes. On the contrary, you will find that he is angry with you. Only by finding the right way to deal with reasonable communication can we handle the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.