Be the best parents' reading notes 1
Being the Best Parent is a book that I read with all the parents and students in Class 7 (5) this semester. Parents and students have already given it to me after reading it, but I, who assigned them tasks, haven't started writing yet after reading it.
The subtitle of this book is Notes on Teachers' Adoption of Daughters, which is a book written by Miss Li for her daughter. This is a unique monograph on family education, which is worth reading by the parents of every ordinary child.
This book is divided into eight chapters, from Notes on Family Education to Notes on Family Education, which records the story of Miss Li's daughter from birth to university. It involves all aspects of family education: the enlightenment education in early childhood, the formation of good habits in primary schools, the guidance of learning methods, how to deal with setbacks, the shaping of good personality, the tempering of strong will, the cultivation of junior and senior high schools, the education of adolescence, the formation of reading habits and so on. Li Qingyan is a child with average IQ, but through Li Zhenxi's family education with democracy, equality and respect as the core, Qingyan has grown into an excellent person in all aspects.
Teacher Li pays the most attention to the cultivation of good character when educating her daughter. In Mr. Li's eyes, the most important thing for Qingyan from small to large is not the score, but the kind quality. Teacher Li always believes that the most basic quality of a person is kindness. When many friends ask him what kind of person he wants his daughter to be, he always replies, "I want her to be a kind person first." Therefore, Teacher Li has cultivated Qingyan's kindness and helpfulness since childhood. As he mentioned in several articles "Children, Kindness is the Most Beautiful", "In my heart, what my daughter is proud of is not her top academic performance, but her natural love in daily life." Li Qingyan is happy to help students with poor grades in the class, although everyone is nervously reviewing a few days before the college entrance examination, whenever students need her help. Of course, her kindness also won the sincerity of her classmates around her. No matter what difficulties Qingyan meets, there will be many classmates to help her.
I believe that Qingyan's kindness comes from the heart, because when she went to college, she chose the "Young Volunteers Association" in the face of various societies. When someone asked her why she chose this way, she said that she likes serving others. I really appreciate and admire Mr. Li's open mind in parenting. Most of the elites cultivated by our current family education and school education are "exquisite egoists", and the daughters cultivated by their fathers like this are truly unprofitable talents cultivated for the country and the nation.
Make the best reading notes for parents II.
Being the Best Parent is a unique family education book written by Li Zhenxi, a famous educator. Every time I read it, I will have a sigh of "I am not tired of reading you a thousand times"!
Taking her daughter's education as a case, the author expounds all aspects of family education: infant enlightenment education, the formation of good habits in primary schools, the shaping of good personality, adolescent education, the guidance of learning methods, the tempering of strong will, transcending the "generation gap", the formation of reading habits, the edification of traditional culture, the expansion of broad mind and the care in the sprint stage of senior three, which provides rich cases and specific training methods for children's family education at all stages.
As a teacher, I have the dual identity of parents. To raise children, I should not only raise children, but also educate them well. To this end, I would like to share and learn from you. I sincerely hope that more parents can read this good book and be the best parents for their children!
As a parent of an educator, I deeply feel that we always pay attention to our words and deeds, try our best to be a role model for our children in personality, and infect their hearts with silent images. However, like many parents, when it comes to the word "happiness" of children, I feel ashamed of my poor performance. How important "happiness" is to children! We all want to give our children happiness, but not everyone can live, work and study happily, so we should keep learning, strive to be caring parents and be the best parents! Parents who can make their children happy all their lives are the best parents!
I got this from the book Being the Best Parent. The word "happiness" is easy to say, but not easy to practice. Many parents are never satisfied with their children's grades and always regard their children as geniuses, so parents are always disappointed with their children. Can children be happy? In Being the Best Parent, "happiness" is endowed with rich connotations. Happiness comes from kindness: making people feel happy because of my existence is the greatest happiness! Happiness comes from knowledge: swimming in the boundless ocean of knowledge is the greatest happiness! Happiness comes from childlike innocence: it is the greatest happiness to remain pure and flawless forever! Happiness comes from transcendence: the greatest happiness is to overcome yourself and strive to be the best you can be! Parents who can make their children happy all their lives are the best parents!
Be the best parent's reading notes 3
What is success and how to achieve it is an eternal topic. Everyone is running on the road to success. However, I didn't re-examine and define success until I read the book "Be the Best Oneself" written by Kai-fu Lee.
After 80s, we are a lucky generation, but at the same time, we are also a generation full of all kinds of helplessness when growing up. It seems that from the day we were born, an inherent success model has been deeply imprinted in our minds. The "unified" growth model has been deeply rooted. Gradually, success has evolved into a leader in the school and a leader in Vanity Fair for us. In people's eyes, success has become synonymous with power and money.
In the complex modern society, generations of young people are busy pursuing worldly, ideal or personal success. Everyone is pursuing success, but few people can calm down and think about it and listen to their own voices.
On the road to success, we never stop in running all the way, because we are worried that a moment's stop will attract criticism from friends and relatives around us. So we missed the scenery along the way during the running. We never stop to listen to our own voices. It seems that even our original dreams have been forgotten by us.
The author of the book explains a concept of success-concentric circles of success. Success is the result of choice, and failure is the product of choice. Your choice will make you have a unique concentric circle of success-because your ideal will not be exactly the same as others, and how you balance your attitude will not be exactly the same as others. Only by actively grasping every choice on the road to success can we constantly surpass ourselves and be the best of ourselves!
Sometimes external conditions cannot be changed. We should have the courage to change what can be changed, the brains to accept what cannot be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two. Follow your inner choice and be the best you can be. As long as you have a complete and balanced understanding of the concentric circles of success and learn how to choose wisely, you can become the "best self".
Be the best parent's reading notes 4
Out of recognition of teacher Li Zhenxi's educational philosophy and personal admiration for teacher Li Zhenxi, one day in the summer vacation of 2007, I bought several famous books by teacher Li Zhenxi at one go, including Education of Love, Being the Best Parent and Being the Best Parent. Due to the busy work, some books haven't been read systematically yet. Perhaps out of the need for children's education and training, but also out of the reference to Mr. Li's successful experience in educating children, during the Spring Festival, I read the book "Being the Best Parent" twice in one breath.
The core idea that Li Zhenxi told us in the preface of Being the Best Parents is that parents are educators, which is the first meaning he told us! Then in the introduction, he told us another core concept of family education: democracy!
I think these two points are very important in the education of children. Parents are also educators, and I have always agreed with this view. I never thought that educating children was just a matter for school teachers, and I never thought that sending children to school could be completely assured that everything would be fine. But in fact, I did it in action, and now I still feel guilty in retrospect. I remember when my daughter graduated from kindergarten and just went to primary school, my teaching task was very tense. As a class teacher and a senior three graduating class, I am very busy every day. When I went out in the morning, my daughter was still sleeping; When I got home at night, my daughter was already asleep; I can't see my daughter until noon, but at that time, eating was a 100-meter sprint and there was no chance to communicate with her. Sometimes I see her being slow, but I still keep urging her (now that I think about it, I can't do everything by myself, but I often make the whole family flustered because of my own confusion), so in that case, I neglected my daughter's guidance and help in the early primary school, and as a result, my daughter's foundation was not solid. Until now, she still has some pinyin confusion, and she feels inferior.
Be the best parent's reading notes 5
Mom, I borrowed a good book from you at school today. This is the first sentence my son saw me after school. My son took it out of his schoolbag and gave it to me. Take a look-"Be the best parent". In my son's mind, maybe I didn't do well enough and wanted me to study. Maybe my son has expectations for me and wants me to be better.
Children are the hope of the family and the continuation of life. Parents work hard to make their children grow up healthily and happily and become promising people. From the birth of a child to school, it is our parents who have the most contact. Mom and Dad are the children's first teachers and guides, and their daily habits subtly lead the children's cognition and direction.
My son Yang Fei is ten years old this year. For ten years, my children and I have lived together day and night and never left. Ten years are inseparable, which leads to the ups and downs of our mother-child relationship. Sometimes, "lovers talk more than half a sentence", and one mouth is war; Sometimes we talk about everything, just like friends.
In the early years, due to the pressure of life, I had to send my children to school while going to work. No one is impatient in life, and the competition at work makes my character more and more irritable. My child follows me to do my homework in the mall every day, but I have no time to take care of him, which makes my child's personality a little impatient. Even though I have changed many methods and consulted many people, my relationship with my son has hardly improved.
I saw "Being the Best Parent" as if I saw a lifeline, hoping to find the answer from this book. Push off all plans at the weekend, study hard at home and look for the "golden key". While reading this book, I realized many mistakes in parenting, not that my children are not good enough, but that I am not good at parenting. I always use my own cognition to demand and force children. Whenever my son and I get along calmly, the child's understanding and consideration always make me cry. In fact, the child has many advantages, but I always ignore his advantages, criticize his shortcomings every day, and always want him to change something and become what he is. This is my failure as a parent.
Be the best parent's reading notes 6
I watched Being the Best Parent, which not only recorded the story of teacher Li Zhenxi and his daughter growing up together, but also provided practical operation mode for all parents. It is a responsibility, an art and a profound knowledge for parents to educate their children. Let me talk about some of my experiences:
Education needs perseverance and perseverance: Teacher Li Zhenxi and his daughter, Qingyan Primary School, in the third grade, ordered "Qingyan Study and Life Work and Rest", which he and his daughter discussed and customized together. I believe many parents have done this, but most of them may be wishful thinking, and few can persist. That's my father. However, Mr. Li Zhenxi can always persist. A small red flower or a book and a disc at the end of the month has created a habit and a spirit. As he himself said, "Good habits are formed by keeping good habits and not rewarding her." Enlightenment is to cultivate children's perseverance and perseverance, and the most important thing is to test parents and teachers.
Encourage children to enhance self-confidence: affirm children's achievements, exaggerate her glory and pride, encourage children not to tell white lies, and comfort their injured hearts in time. We should objectively look at the advantages and disadvantages of children, objectively look at the failure of achievements, and know that progress is compared with our own yesterday, as long as we are the best ourselves.
Teacher Li Zhenxi's daughter got only 77 points in the first Chinese exam. He restrained his emotions and told himself never to infect his daughter unintentionally. He pretended to be relaxed and said, "Ah, I got 77 points the first time, and I will try to get 78 points next time." No parents don't want their children to do well in the exam. If parents always blame, children's self-confidence will be frustrated, which is worse than poor exam results. There are also teachers who let their daughters be assigned to "Red Cliff Fu" in the third grade of primary school, so as to maintain the feeling of happiness in learning and not lose interest in learning because of the oppression of extra-high learning. Teacher Li sets the best example for parents in encouraging children and cultivating their self-confidence. As a parent, Miss Li silently infects children with her own personality, which is the superior realm of family education.
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