The folk song "Two Tigers and Two Tigers Run ~ ~" is familiar to everyone. With the opening of the second child policy, many "only child" families also have "cerebellar rot ~" As the saying goes, one mountain can't accommodate two tigers, and "living alone becomes a group." It is necessary to make a little noise. So how should adults adjust the problem? Your wisdom, housekeeper Jay Si Nuo, will help you solve this problem.
1. Don't judge children by their age.
Event replay: Dabao and Bao Xiao are playing in the room, and mom is cooking in the kitchen. Soon there was crying in the room, and my mother rushed to the room to check the situation. Then Dabao said that his mother immediately reprimanded Bao Xiao because his younger brother was disobedient and grabbed toys, and Bao Xiao cried even more.
Impact of the incident: In the whole process, the role of "mother" did not understand the whole process, but "finalized" the whole thing through the one-sided words of "Dabao", which would give the other party psychological imbalance.
Correct handling: First of all, the role of "mother" should first understand the whole process of the incident, and then put forward handling methods according to their own problems. You can't judge whether one side is right or wrong just by age, so either side will feel unbalanced.
2. Right or wrong, try to let the children solve it themselves.
Event replay: Dabao and Bao Xiao are watching TV in the living room, and their mother is doing housework. I want to watch this TV. I want to watch that cartoon. The two babies quarreled, and the mother quickly intervened. Although the apparent quarrel was resolved, the two children still looked "wronged".
Impact of the incident: In the whole process, although the timely intervention of the role of "mother" did not make the children's quarrel large-scale, in the hearts of the two children, this matter was not really solved, only because of the intervention of "adults", so it came to an end.
Correct handling: it is normal for children to quarrel. Parents can take this opportunity to cultivate their children's communication skills from an early age, especially when they have a "precious" opportunity like the second child. They can disregard the faces of outsiders and sublimate the friendship between the two babies after each quarrel.
Don't shout at children.
Event replay: Dabao and Bao Xiao are drawing in the living room, because the white wall at home has become a "huge picture book" because of "childlike hair". When they saw this situation, their parents immediately reprimanded education.
Impact of the incident: Parents' anger will not make children realize their mistakes, because children's behavior is their first reaction to making decisions, not intentionally. Blind anger will only make children have self-questioning thoughts.
Correct handling: After finding out that children have made mistakes, it is suggested that Qi Xin should work together to guide and educate them. Let the two children sum it up by themselves first, and then settle it peacefully, so that the two children can learn from each other.
4. Learn to divert your attention, and don't dwell on the quarrel point.
Event replay: Dabao and Bao Xiao quarreled, and their parents came to dissuade them. The content of the topic has been entangled in the right or wrong of the incident, which has not solved the problem well, but has triggered a more intense quarrel.
Impact of the incident: In the whole process, the intervention of parents did not play a role in downplaying the heat of the incident, but entangled in it, which only escalated the quarrel.
Handle correctly: When encountering such an event. Parents are advised to take softening measures of "diluting" and "changing the subject". Not everything needs an accurate answer. It is normal for children to make a small noise. One second is incompatible with each other, and so is the next. Parents don't need to explore too much.
In addition to the uncertain factors such as children's failure to develop good study habits and external interference, it is also inseparable for parents to cultivate their children's good living habits and correct learning attitudes from an early age. Nowadays, there are more and more families with two children, and parents' "early education" for their children tends to be professional, so a new professional term has emerged: nursery teacher!
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