1, you should love your children reasonably. Don't be too strict and don't be coquettish. When educating their children, parents should educate their children with correct and reasonable love, not too harsh, not to beat and scold their children; You can't be proud of your children. These two extreme ways are not conducive to the growth of children. When educating children, we should point out their mistakes in time and let them correct them. For example, if a child hits someone, parents can't say, "My child is really energetic!" This is a sign of misleading and conniving children. Many grandparents have this situation. If the child is wrong, he is wrong.

Parents should have a good attitude when educating their children. Parents should maintain a good attitude when educating their children, mainly because they are contented and have "high standards and low requirements" for their children. After all, it is a child. It is good if children make even a little progress. For example, it is very difficult for children to tidy their rooms. If the child can fold several clothes, parents should encourage the child, but be specific, such as "your folded clothes are really good, keep working hard", and don't say "you are really great" in general.

3. Guide children to behave well by playing games. Children like role-playing. If children don't eat well, parents can guide them to eat by playing games. For example, take the children's bowls and chopsticks, let the children put them neatly, and then the parents put the tableware in turn, let the children arrange the performance, and the children will cooperate very much. But it's time to eat, and the children can't play endlessly. Parents can talk it over with their children and play games after dinner.

4. The time to punish children should be short. When a child makes a mistake, the punishment time for the child at this stage should not be too long, otherwise it will lead to some negative effects. For example, the child always throws peels and scraps of paper on the floor. In order to punish the child, parents should let him sweep the floor and pay attention to cleaning for a few minutes. Don't take too long, otherwise children will feel insecure and lack understanding of their parents.