As a healthy and kind child, intelligence and education are more important this year if you want to be an excellent person. More importantly, we can see that many unreasonable, unreasonable and even self-centered children are becoming more and more powerful and overbearing. Of course, we can be favorites at home, but in society, children will suffer after all, just like this child's sense of independence. Therefore, if you want your child to be an excellent child, you should not only grasp the child's achievements and cultivate his ability, but also pay attention to the five main qualities of the child. Let's share them today.
Be patient in everything, don't worry, remember that children are very young? If you have a mother with milk powder, you have left this impression. If you need to feed every three hours, if you do, we won't feed your child and the child will start crying. At this time, parents are very eager to prepare milk powder for their children. I'm worried about my children. I'm worried that my children will stay here for a long time. So parents will be particularly distressed. For this problem, parents need to know the good time for their children in infancy and early childhood.
We can tell children what patience is. For example, if you wait a moment, can we be patient with your children? Patience is that your mother will give you a long time. You can also cry, you can be a patient, so teaching children patience needs to start with babies, and don't think that children don't know anything. Secondly, we should know that in addition to daily education, children should also set an example. Mom and dad must know that he is the object of children. If parents often treat their children's temper and do things irregularly, then the children's temper will not go, because our words will affect the children, so when talking to the children, we should clearly understand what the children are thinking or what makes them impatient, and you can understand information analysis.
We bought some assembled toys. When you hold your hand, your child is very happy, but if it is more difficult, the child will lose his temper when assembling. In this case, if you tell her, mom, I bought a toy, this is your happiness. Don't make you angry. If you are angry, we will throw it away! In fact, most parents will return to their children's anger, which is wrong. We should tell our children, in fact, it's very interesting. The baby is still very young, and it may need to be able to do it with mom and dad, and it is best to play together, but mom and dad also want to play, because my father doesn't play when he is my mother.
In the process of discussing the conference with your child, guide the child to say that he has never used his temper. At the same time, giving children a concept of time, without patience, children's concept of time is even worse, and they are impatient. For example, if children do housework cleaning and don't play, they may talk for a while at this time, and then' later' will not be more and more. Can we say that it is better to wait 10 minutes? So 10 minutes must be accurate. Let the children know that it is 10 minutes, or wait for 10 minutes until we finish the room and complete the following itinerary, so that the children can understand the concept of time and be patient enough.
In addition to patience, responsibility is also important. In fact, when a child is two years old, he is given a sense of responsibility. For example, many parents think that their children are too young to participate actively, and many things have not come. Even if you give it to him, it's still bad. In fact, it is a manifestation of complete distrust of children. In two years, American children have a practical ability. Like changing diapers and throwing garbage cans. This little behavior will cultivate a sense of responsibility and think that your own things should be completed. So arrange five small things for your child to complete within his skill range every day, or when the child is more interested in our family, we can also let the child actively participate and ask him for help, starting with simple small things. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility and self-motivation, which can exercise their independence and make them more responsible.