What kinds of wrong "care" should be avoided in family education? Many parents don't know. Every child's growth stage contains parents' high hopes, hoping that they can be happier, take fewer detours in life, need independence in the future, and take good care of their work and life. However, many times wishes are beautiful. However, in the process of parenting education, under the incorrect "care" of parents, children will leave more dead ends.

1. Parents don't do what they say. Every parent is an example for children to learn, train and imitate. In the minds of many children, parents are the purpose of their own study and the people they need to be when they grow up. So parents' words and deeds will also have an impact on their children. Responsible parents, of course, frankly face the educational value of this kind of words and deeds, but they should be more concerned about their own manners, keep their word and behave single-mindedly, and set an example for their children from bit by bit. Parents with different words and deeds will educate their children in a caring way, but they have not played a good role model; Will plant blind seeds in children's young minds; After the seeds take root and sprout, they will show up in the form of children's rebellion.

2. always use material as a reward. In some parents' minds, feeling their children's inner requirements is their motivation for active learning; This view itself is not incorrect, but taking material as the reason for children's learning, when children reach a certain personal goal, they will meet their material requirements, as if turning the driving force of children's essence into a need for material. Every parent has a different level and can basically meet the needs of children. Assuming that one day it is difficult to realize children's more material ideals, it will only make children's minds suffer great setbacks.

Under the influence of the causes of material diseases, children will gradually cultivate this logical thinking. My material gain is not the love given by my parents, but my own efforts. Although it can promote learning to some extent, it may not be a good thing in the long run.

3. Solve the problem of "no complaints, no complaints, no hair" for children. In the past education, children were always concerned about the problems found by themselves, trying to solve difficulties and finding solutions to problems in the process of exploration. This will help children master professional knowledge and make the work experience in textbooks their own items. However, in daily life, many parents care too much about their children, or their educational ideas are inappropriate. They don't let children explore the unknown world alone, but constantly give them specific guidance. Hurting children with their own experiences and immediately depriving them of the right to explore will make cultural education exist in name only, and the conclusion can only get twice the result with half the effort.