1, answer the sex question proudly.
If you are embarrassed about this topic, read some related books and talk to your trusted friends. The more you know about sex, the more you will believe that you can discuss this topic. Even if you can't get rid of your psychological dilemma or your sexual knowledge is not satisfied, you should communicate with your child safely, and don't expect yourself to answer all the questions raised by your child. Your answers to them are much more important than how many answers you know. If you make them feel that there are no endless topics in this family, then all communication will be smooth.
2. Teach sexual knowledge in life as soon as possible.
If you want to explain sexual knowledge to children, then this process should be gradual, step by step, and should start as soon as possible. For example, when explaining to children what nose and toes are, you can say "this is your penis" or "this is your vagina" at the same time. In the process of children's growth, you can continue to educate them and teach some sexual knowledge step by step until they can understand sex well.
3, targeted, take the initiative to lead to the topic
If your child hasn't asked questions about sex, then you can find an appropriate opportunity to lead to related topics. Especially after children enter adolescence, parents should talk about pregnancy with their children generously. If you don't have a chance, make excuses, such as "Have you noticed that David's mother's belly is getting bigger and bigger?" She's going to have a baby. Do you know how the child got into her stomach? "So, the dialogue between you can start from here.
4. Talk about emotional responsibilities related to sex.
Children not only need to understand sex from a physiological point of view, but also need to understand the sexual relationship closely related to care, care and responsibility. By commenting on the emotional elements involved in sexual relations with children, she (he) can help her make better decisions and accept the pressure from her peers in her future life. If your children have reached puberty, you need to tell them that sex involves responsibility and results. For example, talking to children aged 1 1, 12 should include unplanned pregnancy and how to protect yourself.
5. Provide accurate sexual knowledge in time.
When discussing sex with children, we should pay attention to the content suitable for children's age and growth stage. Suppose you 12-year-old children ask, "Why do boys and girls have great physiological changes when they grow up?" You can say something like this: "Everyone has a special chemical component called hormone, but the hormones in boys and girls are different. So when the boy grows up, his voice will become deep and his hair will become more and more; When a girl grows up, her breasts will become bigger and her hips will become round. "