Rebellion is self-awakening I began to have self-awareness and expression. According to different ages and different growth needs, there will be different ways of expression. For example, three-year-old children's "I will come" and "I want" just want to learn to do more things. Besides satisfying his curiosity about the world, he also wants to do things as freely as an adult. At this time, parents often get into trouble from time to time because of their children's surprise, feel troublesome and regard their children as disobedient-rebellious. For example, the dissatisfaction of 9-year-old children is mainly an educational rebound from parents' excessive discipline, and they like to do things that go against their parents' instructions to prove their sense of existence. Of course, there are also hopes that parents will listen to or respect their own ideas. It's just that the communication between children and parents is a little timid at this stage, and they have the experience of face-to-face and equal communication with their parents, so they will be blunt and direct. Often parents don't understand this and think that children are not polite enough, talk back and refuse to accept it, which is regarded as treason. For example, 12-year-old children want independence, freedom, respect for personality and personal space, including independent thinking, time control and pocket money. Children in this period, because the three views were established at the beginning, will feel estranged if their parents don't keep pace with the times. Children's autism or contradictions make parents feel very sad, and even have the pain of how to raise a baiwenhang. See children as rebels.