1, pay attention to the physical and psychological changes of children and take time to chat with them.

2. Educational methods should be improved. When I was a child, my parents were more authoritative, but as my children grew up, they began to have more opinions of their own. Parents should learn to talk to their children in a tone of equal consultation and respect their opinions. Parents should adopt appropriate guidance methods. Don't force children to do what they want to do, lest they have rebellious psychology.

3. Give children a subtle education by telling things. Incorporate conscious education into unintentional chat. On the one hand, we can understand the children's ideological trends, on the other hand, we can teach the children's parents the correct views.

4, more understanding, care, love, less blame, coercion, and never corporal punishment.

5. Give necessary help to children's difficulties.

6. For children with poor binding force, we should give him some appropriate tasks and pressures. For children with strong self-esteem and competitiveness, attention should be paid to relieving stress. Adolescent children are a critical period for their growth, so parents must pay attention to observation, communication, guidance, knowledge, education and help. Children will soon become adults, and I hope parents will learn to treat their children as adults. This is an important process.