1, cultivate children's hobbies
In fact, a simple and effective way for parents to reduce their children's dependence is to help their children find what they are interested in. For example, my family Dabao likes Taekwondo, so I signed up Dabao for an interest class in Taekwondo. Dabao has also invested more time and energy in his own interests. Moreover, I also met friends from the club in the interest class and often went for an outing for two hours. Parents should observe their children more, find out what they are more interested in, and then cultivate their hobbies. When children have what they want to do, their attention will be distracted and their dependence on their parents will be reduced appropriately. Moreover, children can build their self-confidence by doing what they like.
Parents should let their children participate in adult affairs and learn to be independent.
Compared with children of the same age, Dabao's independent ability is good. The other children are still hungry and crying. Dabao learned to eat by himself. When children make some progress and their parents encourage and praise them in time, children can stick to what they are doing more patiently and do better. As for some housework, parents can try to let go and let their children try simpler housework. Parents can't ignore this kind of housework. All housework is viability for children. Parents should also pay more attention to their children. Give children enough love, and children will feel safe and have the courage to learn to be independent. It is not good for children to rely too much on their parents. Parents decided to ignore all this and not mistake it for their children's "love". Excessive dependence will reduce children's viability, hinder their social development, and do more harm than good to their growth. Therefore, parents should learn to let go on the basis of loving their children and let them grow up independently.