? What should parents do when two children fight? 1, the root of the contradiction between children is that the elders think that they will be ignored by their parents when they have brothers and sisters. Therefore, after giving birth to a second child, parents should take care of both children. Although it can't be fair, it can't be violent and let older children feel it directly.
2. There are children and children. The child's mind is the most sensitive. Once the parents are biased towards which side, the child will feel insecure, and thinking about whether the parents "don't like him" and so on will bring certain psychological harm to the child. This kind of injury is irreparable. But gifts can be bought, so when buying gifts for children, don't forget to prepare gifts for older children.
Don't compare two children. The two children have different strengths and interests, so we can't compare them blindly. For disadvantaged children, this is killing their self-confidence in the cradle.
You can try to praise older children and let them set an example for younger children. It can be seen that older children cultivate a sense of responsibility and think that they can also help their parents, and it is not useless.
If both children cry, the child is still very young, and the mother should comfort him, and the older child should comfort his father. Don't let older children feel that parents are partial to their children. He has no sense of existence, so don't comfort him.
6. When two children are fighting, don't interfere in the conflict between them within a safe range, and the two children will solve it themselves. And don't always say, "older children must let younger children, because younger brothers and sisters are still young."
7. When two children were fighting, the children were crying. You must calm the children first, and then ask the older children why they are crying. Don't scold the older child blindly, thinking that it is the fault of the older child that the younger brother (sister) cried.
8. What older children are not allowed to do should be pointed out directly to the children. You can't say that you are not allowed to do something. You can't say you are a big boy, you can't do it.
If the two children don't play well, there is no intention to stop. Just because my parents stopped it, I didn't ask the reason for the fight, but just said it was wrong. Let the two children learn to compare their hearts, consider each other's position and admit their mistakes to each other.