As a modern parent, do you know how to educate modern children? Many parents think that family education is to develop children's intelligence, that is, to let children recite Tang poems from the age of two or three and learn English at the age of four or five. After going to school, you must have tutors and remedial classes, and your grades must be among the best. You must go to a famous university in the future. It seems that only in this way can parents' education succeed and children become talents. Practice has proved that this is a great misunderstanding of family education and a bad consequence of continuing education in family education. The most important task of family education should be to build a great wall of children's personality.
Imagine if a child lacks knowledge of life (he will have suicidal thoughts when encountering setbacks), has no ability to dream (he doesn't know what he wants to do in the future), doesn't know how to protect himself (he is still abducted by farmers after becoming a doctoral student) and can't share with others (he is rich but unhappy). So, what can he do even if he is the first in all subjects?
What needs to be changed most now is parents, not their educational concept. So, what should the correct family education be like? Children should be helped to build a good life platform, so that they can have a good personality, know how to be a man and know the true meaning of success. This is the parents.
Only when parents' educational ideas change can our children receive a good family education and benefit for life.
The first key is how to make children establish an optimistic attitude.
1. Accepting reality is the first step towards optimism.
2. Cultivate an optimistic personality and let children face the misfortunes in life calmly.
3. Let the children keep a normal heart.
If children spend a lot of energy on anxiety, they can't exert their inner abilities.
Humor seems to be a "trick", but it is actually a "stunt"
The second key is to let children learn to be grateful and tolerant.
1. Narrow-minded children will only suffer for life.
2. With love, there will be motivation to seek knowledge and beauty.
3. Pranks will "cause trouble" and guide children to correct them in time.
4. Eliminate the cruelty of children in time.
Only when you know how to be grateful can you grow up.
The third key is to cultivate children's courage to face failure.
1. Children are fragile. Teach them to face failure.
2. Cultivating children's willpower can't be ignored.
It is difficult for children unfamiliar with setbacks to integrate into society.
4. Replace inferiority with self-confidence
Always blame the child for his failure, and the child will become "incompetent"
6. Praise your child, but don't overdo it.
The fourth key is to teach children to protect themselves.
1. Teach children some safety knowledge and deal with injuries calmly.
Children who depend on their parents will inevitably degenerate.
Children lack the ability to cope with the world and are in danger of being swallowed up by life at any time.
4. Overprotection equals "injury"
5. Improve the child's "immunity" and face the temptation calmly.
The fifth key is to let children dare to dream.
1. Only when you dream can you create.
2. Don't scold your child for "talking in his sleep"
3. When a child has a dream, urge him to take a step towards it.
4. Rejecting the child's "why" is to cut off his thinking wings.
5. Be kind to children's interests
6. Creative children often have a Mercedes-Benz mind.
The sixth key is to cultivate children's good communication skills.
1. Only children who know social etiquette can have good popularity.
2. Children are good at talking, which can attract others' interest and attention.
3. Respecting others means respecting yourself.
If a child dares to admit his mistake, then the mistake has been changed by half.
5. Cooperation ability is more important than knowledge.
6. Children who know how to listen have personality charm.
The seventh key is to teach children to use money reasonably.
1. The sooner children get in touch with and learn to use pocket money, the easier it is for them to earn money when they grow up.
2. Properly handle children's lucky money.
3. Develop the habit of saving so that children can benefit for life.
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish.
5. Correct children's psychology of blindly comparing.
The eighth key is to help children know themselves correctly.
1. Encourage children to actively communicate with others and eliminate their loneliness.
2. Long-term shyness makes children prone to inferiority complex.
Learn to appreciate others, and you will appreciate yourself.
4. Let children discover one of their own advantages every day.
Only by knowing how to "give up" can you gain something.