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Reflections on Family Education Forum 1
Children are innocent and pure, and brain development is not only influenced by basic heredity, but also has a lot to do with life experiences in early childhood. If parents don't let their children realize that it takes great efforts to make contributions, and children encounter many difficulties in their efforts, they will think that they can't be the kind of people their parents say, and they will feel depressed and sad, which will seriously affect their confidence in making progress and seeking knowledge. Therefore, parents should help their children to establish correct values! Let's share some ways to establish children's correct values from our own family education experience!
1 Create adversity and sharpen children's perseverance
Don't spoil children, you can create some setbacks and test their perseverance.
Let children start by overcoming small difficulties.
We should be strict with our children, let them overcome difficulties and gradually improve, and we must persist in achieving results.
3 Play an exemplary role and stimulate self-exercise.
Parents can tell stories, legends, watch movies, go to the Martyrs Memorial Hall and read books according to their children's characteristics. Let children learn typical characters, inspire self-education and cultivate perseverance.
4 the combination of love and strictness
Correct love for children is the basis of cultivating children's good character. If parents want to love their children properly, they must unify love and strictness. Parents are strict with their children in behavior quality, and children will certainly suffer, but in the long run, it will help cultivate their good character. Afraid of children suffering, too accommodating to children may lead to children's willfulness and strong dependence, and they can't stand suffering in later life. In fact, whether children will be happy in the future is more influenced by their personality.
Help children set up lofty ideals.
Ideal is the core of personality. Ideal is a conscious pursuit gradually formed in children's minds through the inspiration and guidance of parents and teachers. Parents can't set goals, set ideals and impose them on themselves instead of their children. The child is naive. They often want to be a writer when they grow up, because they read an article that touched them, and they want to be a scientist, because they visited a natural museum. They may decide to be teachers when they grow up, because they met an amiable and lovely teacher. Don't easily deny these ideas of children, but encourage them to be positive and ambitious. With the growth of age, according to the emergence of different advantages of different children, we will gradually guide them to develop in the right direction.
6. Pay attention to training from daily chores.
Drop water to see the sun. It is not enough to talk about the director of the avenue to cultivate children's sound personality. It is important to start from daily life.
Family Education Experience Forum II
Thackeray, an English writer, said: "Sowing behavior, harvesting habits, sowing habits, harvesting character, sowing character, harvesting fate." This shows the importance of cultivating good behavior habits. Tao Xingzhi, a thinker in China, once said that "most of the important habits and attitudes needed in life can be cultivated successfully before the age of six." It reveals the necessity of cultivating good behavior habits as soon as possible.
Nowadays, most children are only children, which is the sunshine at home. Family members take meticulous care of their children's lives, feed and clothe them, help them do everything they need to do, meet their requirements to the maximum extent, and never say "no" in front of them. The excessive doting and pampering of grandparents has caused children to be self-centered, with poor adaptability, willfulness and fear of hardship. From teachers' home visits and questionnaires at the beginning of school, it is found that most children in small classes are at home, and many parents attach great importance to the intellectual development of children's cognitive education, taking the cultivation of children's behavior habits as an excuse to replace or not correct them. In the process of children's development, there is disharmony and unsynchronization between cognitive ability and behavioral ability. Many children are still confident when performing programs, but once they are allowed to complete a simple task independently, they seem at a loss. Some children haven't formed basic behavior habits such as eating, going to the toilet, listening to music and playing with toys. If this situation is allowed to develop, there will be more and more problems in children's behavior, and children's dysplasia will be inevitable, which will have a negative impact on children's future life.
3~4 years old is the key period to cultivate children's good behavior habits, and family education and preschool education are the important periods for children to form good behavior habits, which is more important than knowledge acquisition. And good behavior habits can not be formed overnight. To cultivate a person's good behavior habits, we must start from an early age. More and more facts prove that the cultivation of good behavior habits is much more important than the acquisition of knowledge. Developing good habits is the basis for a person to get rid of society, and it also determines his work efficiency and quality of life to a great extent, thus affecting his success and happiness in his life. It can be said that habit is an important aspect of a person's quality. Small class is an important stage for children to gradually move from adult care to independent life. Many behaviors of children in small classes have not been established or stereotyped, which is very plastic. Therefore, it is more important to cultivate children's good living and health habits in small classes.
First, adhere to "learning by doing" and cultivate children's good behavior habits in daily life.
1 Practical exercises in daily life are very important for developing the habit of improving children's abilities. Experience tells us: "Children who can take care of themselves are made, and children who can't take care of themselves are used to it." "Doing" should respect children's autonomy. If children are always afraid that they can't do it or can't do it well, they will be deprived of the right of independent development, which will only cultivate their dependence and timid character, which is not conducive to their normal development. Therefore, parents should learn to let go, let their children operate in daily life, and construct good behavior habits in the operation.
2. Strengthen education for children through repeated training.
A person's good behavior habit is not formed at once, and it needs a process from strangeness to proficiency, and then from proficiency to liberalization. To complete this process, we must train repeatedly and gradually strengthen it, especially for children with relatively poor memory control ability. Repeated training is particularly important. If some children don't have the habit of putting toys back in the toy cupboard after playing with them, parents should consciously cultivate the habit of tidying up their children and repeat the training many times, so that children can develop the good habit of putting toys back in their original places consciously and in time without reminding.
By listening to stories and legends, develop good eating habits and toilet habits.
Lunch is an indispensable part of the day. When children eat, some tables are full of rice grains and vegetables, and sometimes the floor is full of them. Mothers are worried. For children in small classes, it is definitely not acceptable to criticize blindly. Don't worry, I'll tell you a little trick. Children are very interested in stories and legends. You can try to use stories and legends to tell children stories and legends about "cock leaking" for a period of time before going to bed every day, so that children can know not to drop rice when eating. Some children often pee in bed. In view of this phenomenon, we can tell children the story and legend of "Piggy weeding the bed". Inspired by vivid stories and legends, children know how to go to the toilet in time before going to bed to avoid wetting the bed. Some children find it difficult to sleep. By listening to the song "Quiet at Nine o'clock", children can gradually develop the good habit of going to bed at nine o'clock on time, pay attention to observation at ordinary times, and seize every commendable opportunity to urge and encourage children. Promote them to develop good eating habits.
4 play house games with children and cultivate their good habit of self-service.
Parents can make cute bottle dolls out of Sprite bottles and let their children feed them with chopsticks. Provide dolls, dress dolls, zip them, tie bows, wear shoes, etc. Children will also become more interested in learning in a relaxed and happy game environment. By feeding the doll, the child exercised the small muscles of his fingers and improved his hands-on ability. You can also collect toys at home and open a game "toy store". By buying and selling toys, children gradually developed the good habit of putting toys back. In the game with you, children's social emotions such as good cooperation and sharing have also been well developed, thus winning the cooperation of parents and changing their bad habits. Most of today's children are only children, and they are loved by their families. They give whatever they want at home and do whatever they want, which leads some children to form many bad habits. This requires teachers to be responsible for their own work, responsible for their own children, and correct them during the day's activities. After I discovered my children's bad habits, I reasoned with them and persuaded others. Because children's self-control ability and self-evaluation ability are poor, it is difficult to correct their own shortcomings, so I try my best to be patient, strive for the cooperation of parents, maintain the consistency and continuity of kindergarten and family education, and do not rush for success. I firmly believe that as long as you persist, you will naturally develop good behavior habits.
Second, create a good family education atmosphere and promote the formation of children's good behavior habits.
1 strive for parents' cooperation and change children's bad habits. Most of today's children are only children, and they are loved by their families. They give whatever they want at home and do whatever they want, which leads some children to form many bad habits. This requires teachers to be responsible for their own work, responsible for their own children, and correct them during the day's activities. After I discovered my children's bad habits, I reasoned with them and persuaded others. Because children's self-control ability and self-evaluation ability are poor, it is difficult to correct their own shortcomings, so I try my best to be patient, strive for the cooperation of parents, maintain the consistency and continuity of kindergarten and family education, and do not rush for success. I firmly believe that as long as you persist, you will naturally develop good behavior habits.
2 In daily life, in line with the principle of "adults let go, children do it", cultivate children's self-care ability. From the perspective of children's development, not giving children the opportunity to exercise is tantamount to depriving them of the opportunity to develop their self-care ability. Over time, children will lose their independence. Therefore, we should follow the principle of "adults let go and children do it" and let children do what they can. At home, parents can take advantage of the situation according to their children's interests and abilities, and through concrete and meticulous demonstrations, start from the small things around them, from easy to difficult, and teach their children some self-service skills, such as learning to wipe their nose and mouth, wash their teeth, wash their faces, dress and make their beds. The children came to kindergarten and learned a lot of self-care skills. I wonder if you could tell me? Although these seem to be very small things, they actually create a good exercise opportunity for children, which virtually enables them to live independently. When children finish a job, parents should give them proper affirmation and appreciation. When children's existence value is affirmed and their working ability is affirmed, they will also feel extremely excited and happy, and their self-confidence will be greatly enhanced.
3 set an example and set a good example for children. Encourage parents to set a good example of independence for their children. The power of example is infinite. Secondly, we suggest that parents subscribe to the magazines "Early Childhood Education" and "Family Education", regularly organize parents to talk about their parenting experiences, give feedback on reading family education articles, strengthen their study, constantly improve their cultural literacy, study from books, learn from others, learn from children and reflect on education. Combine "learning, thinking and doing" to explore the law of parenting and become an expert in educating children. We also actively guide parents to unify the understanding and education methods of family members at home, strictly demand and repeatedly emphasize that various rules are constantly strengthened and supplemented in the process of cultivating and educating young children, so that young children can unswervingly work towards their own goals. For example, dissolved children are not interested in eating, have a bad appetite, are distracted when eating, and often put rice in their mouths or spit in bowls. After kindergarten education, children have made progress in eating habits and eating time, but children still need grandma to feed them at home. We contact parents in time, hoping that parents can cooperate, ask children like kindergartens, insist on letting children eat independently at home, and give timely praise and encouragement to every progress of children when eating, and gradually children are the same at home and in the garden. Parents' educational concepts are also gradually changing. They not only enhance their awareness of cultivating children's good behavior, but also realize the urgency and importance of this work.
4 Diligently urge and remind children to develop good life and behavior habits in a relaxed family environment. Children's good behavior habits are not formed at once, and they need a process from unfamiliar to skilled, and then from skilled to active. To complete this process, we must train repeatedly and gradually strengthen it, especially for children with relatively poor memory control ability. Repeated training is particularly important. For example, some children don't have the habit of putting toys back after playing, so parents should consciously urge their children to practice packing toys and repeat training many times, so that children can develop the good habit of putting toys back in time without reminding. Play games at home and cultivate children's good habit of self-service.
Parents can make cute bottle dolls out of Sprite bottles and let their children feed them with chopsticks. Provide dolls, dress dolls, zip them, tie bows, wear shoes, etc. Children will also become more interested in learning in a relaxed and happy game environment. By feeding the doll, the child exercised the small muscles of his fingers and improved his hands-on ability. You can also collect toys at home and open a game "toy store". By buying and selling toys, children gradually developed the good habit of putting toys back. In the game with you, children's social feelings such as good cooperation and sharing have also been well developed.
Strive for parents' cooperation and change children's bad habits. Most of today's children are only children, and they are loved by their families. They give whatever they want at home and do whatever they want, which leads some children to form many bad habits. This requires teachers to be responsible for their own work, responsible for their own children, and correct them during the day's activities. After I discovered my children's bad habits, I reasoned with them and persuaded others. Because children's self-control ability and self-evaluation ability are poor, it is difficult to correct their own shortcomings, so I try my best to be patient, strive for the cooperation of parents, maintain the consistency and continuity of kindergarten and family education, and do not rush for success. I firmly believe that as long as you persist, you will naturally develop good behavior habits.
Family education experience forum 3
In the autumn of 20x, I was fortunate to be a mother. Since having this baby, it has added a lot of joy to our family.
My child Zhu Yingjia has achieved excellent results in all subjects and made progress in all aspects during her study and life at school in the past two years. Thank the teachers for their hard work and the students for their help and trust. In children's family education, I think it is very important to encourage and guide children's interest in time and cultivate children's persistent good study habits.
1 Encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My child's intelligence is very average. Sometimes she will say, I am so difficult to learn, I can't do it well, and so on. I asked her what you want to be when you grow up. She said that I want to be a doctor. I said that your idea is very good, but to be a good doctor requires a lot of knowledge. The Chinese, maths and English you are studying at present are all foundations. If you don't master the basic knowledge well, you can't do anything well, let alone become a doctor. So she feels that she must finish all her homework at this moment in order to realize her wish. Every little progress she makes, we will praise him: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, make her happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage her to say: I believe you will do better next time. She knows that you should get up immediately when you fall!
Respect and guide children's interests, and constantly encourage children. When children have interest and confidence, it will become easy to learn anything.
2. Be brave to cooperate with the school to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school, cooperate with the arrangement of the school. It is very reasonable for the school to require parents to sign every day. It is an effective way to supervise and understand children and an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of school arrangements, learning progress, children's performance in school, what they have done well and what they have not. Therefore, we will strictly urge and assist children to finish their homework, and carefully check the children's completion scenes, help her check for leaks, explain what she doesn't understand, and let her strengthen the correction of mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell her to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell her why it is not good and what to do in the future.
Playfulness is a child's nature, which requires supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, finishing homework seriously, thinking independently, asking questions diligently and mastering what they have learned firmly.
3. Insist on after-school study and constantly expand knowledge.
In addition to the homework assigned by the school, we have also made plans for children to study and exercise, such as the writing training of traditional Chinese painting electronic organ in the juvenile home, which is carried out alternately in terms of semester and weekend. At first, she didn't like the electronic piano, but she liked the other three courses (she often said to me, "Mom, I will study all three courses until the teenager comes home." )。 To tell the truth, the electronic piano is quite difficult to learn. I didn't know much about it at first, not to mention that being a child will take a lot of time. I often tell my daughter that everything is difficult at the beginning, but as long as you are willing to work hard, you will certainly learn well. I will tell her stories and legends about the grinding of iron bars into needles and keep practicing for half an hour every day. Sometimes she doesn't want to practice, I will encourage her. Once you learn the electronic piano, you will gain an extra skill, and then you will understand that my efforts today have not been in vain. In this way, through your own efforts, let yourself adapt slowly. The teacher's comments have changed from good at the beginning to excellent now, so she won the title of excellent student in this training. She was also very happy and said to me, "I seem to have a gift for this." I said there must be, otherwise how to get the certificate! I saw an electronic organ in the interest column of her personal file in her product book at the moment.
Children also like reading. There are many of her books at home, including fairy tales, fables, stories and legends. We like science encyclopedias. Why do we have brain teasers or something? We are very interested in reading. We must read for half an hour before going to bed. She said that if we didn't read them, I wouldn't be able to sleep.
Knowledge needs to be accumulated continuously. As the ancients said, if you don't accumulate steps, you won't reach a thousand miles, and if you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
4. Create a good learning atmosphere in the family
The process of educating children is actually a process of parents' self-improvement, and adults also have many shortcomings. In order to educate future generations, we strive to correct our behavior and constantly improve ourselves. Adults' words and deeds will inadvertently attract children's attention and then imitate them. Therefore, parents should set an example and start from themselves. At ordinary times, we should set an example for our children and let them develop morally and intellectually healthily.
Life is limited and learning is limited. As parents, we should strengthen our study, educate our children scientifically, and strive to make family education and school education grow together! Become an excellent guide on the road of children's life! Create a broader blue sky for the healthy growth of children!
Family education experience forum 4
Everything is difficult at the beginning, and education itself is a norm of moral behavior. The education problem of students is not only the school's, but also the family's. Family is a child's first teacher and a teacher of family education. It is through family education that parents impart good moral knowledge and experience to their children. For the future of the children. Lay a good foundation for the road of life. In my opinion, the key to doing a good job in family education should be to "prescribe the right medicine" according to the characteristics of children.
Children are like flowers in spring, innocent, lively and lovely, innocent, and have poor ability to distinguish right from wrong. At the same time, they are curious, receptive and imitative. Therefore, parents should never use simple and rude methods to educate their children. We should be good at guiding, try our best to stimulate their interest and change passive learning into active learning. They should mainly do the following work:
Cultivate children's good study habits
Ye Shengtao said: "Education is the formation of habits." "All good attitudes and good methods should become habits. Only when proficiency becomes a habit can we express a good attitude at any time and place, and apply good methods at any time and place, as if by instinct, we can never use them all our lives. " Children's concentration time is short, so they must improve their learning efficiency in peacetime. For example, when writing homework, you should finish the homework assigned by the teacher within the specified time, and you can't play while doing it; Check your homework and be responsible for yourself. Parents must not be teachers. Parents must pay attention to the analysis of the reasons for the wrong questions, not just staring at the scores. This makes children feel that learning is their own business, and good study habits can get twice the result with half the effort.
Second, pay attention to the ways and means of communicating with children.
As parents, we should put down our airs, make friends with children, regard children as independent subjects, communicate with children as low as possible, use less imperative tone and use more negotiating language. Use "we" more than "you should", even if it is criticism, let your child feel your love for him. Because children's hearts are very fragile, if parents often give their children classes, they will inevitably have a sense of fear and disgust. If they dare not approach you, they will often have rebellious psychology. Not only do they not like what you say, but they are afraid to go to school.
Third, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds.
As parents, we should pay special attention to our image. Parents should behave in a civilized way in front of our children. Because parents are role models for children, parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on children and have a far-reaching impact on their growth. Of course, we must have great endurance and be patient with children. Don't use your child as a vent bucket when you encounter troubles at work. As parents, you can't lose your temper. You can only take pains to persuade education. At most, you can only euphemistically say "I'm really angry if you do this again", and then patiently guide and persuade.
Fourth, stimulate children's interest in learning.
As parents, we should try our best to be good at guiding and stimulate children's interest in learning. As we all know, children are active and playful by nature, but as long as they are interested in something, they will really study hard, do it seriously and do it consciously. They don't want to do things they are not interested in, and it is impossible to drive ducks to the shelves for their children. Only by being good at guiding children and stimulating their interest in learning can children be happy and actively involved in learning. Usually, you can use your knowledge and imagination to make up some interesting stories and legends, or interesting games, so that children can learn while playing, and truly "enjoy learning."
In short, for children's family education, we should learn to communicate with them attentively, help them develop good study habits, stimulate their interest in learning, and let them study happily and grow up healthily.
Family education experience forum 5
(1) Parents should set an example for their children, schools should make enterprising guidance, and both sides should work together.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are role models for their children. Only when they do it themselves will the children learn. If it's just reasonable, but the individual can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education, in any case, is beyond the golden jade, and the education inside simply doesn't work. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results. My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, the child has made progress not only in his studies, but also in other aspects under the inculcation of his father and school teachers, and has become a sensible and good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits. Colleagues told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children form a good habit of conscious learning. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year's college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) cultivate children's interest, this is the teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that if you can play, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(4) Punish children appropriately, guide them to make progress and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. After we understood, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son, pointing out that it was wrong for him to hit me, and my son admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is very enjoyable.
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