With the development of society, the divorce rate is rising day by day, and such a family will do great harm to children. These children are often withdrawn, willful, psychologically fragile, with low endurance, strong revenge and poor academic performance. Therefore, our family is good at appreciating others, learning to understand and tolerate, never losing his temper in front of children, and letting children live in a stable, happy and harmonious environment. Children will be well trained, learn to appreciate others and get along well with classmates. At home, parents seldom scold their children rudely. When he makes mistakes, they always patiently reason with him, be reasonable and understand, and be emotional. And tell him that if his parents are right, he must listen; If he is right, his parents will firmly support him. They strive to be friendly and equal to their children and never oppress others by seniority.
Second, words and deeds influence children subtly.
What they ask their children to do, they should do it first, try to give them the best influence, and let them develop good living habits and study habits. They ask their children to be as clean, hygienic and fond of learning as their parents. As long as the child does well, they always praise him; Bad habits are slowly corrected, and good behavior habits are gradually formed. They attach great importance to cultivating children's interest in reading. From the pictorial of one or two years old to the story of reading pictures of three or four years old, children have a strong interest in books, and they have been reading many books since they were very young. Before children go to primary school, they can already calculate the addition and subtraction within 1000, and they can read many ancient poems and more than 2,000 Chinese characters. On Sundays and holidays, we will take them out to play, go to parks and amusement parks, and broaden their knowledge horizons. Children are naturally happy and prefer Xinhua Bookstore. They are as obsessed with books as I am a teacher.
Third, strictness and kindness complement each other.
Today's children are really happy and enjoy many products of modern civilization. Not only do we try our best to provide him with a superior environment, but we also don't forget to educate our children to work hard and stand on their own feet; We will give him all kinds of novel toys, and we will often tell him the story of the Red Army's Long March crossing the grassland to eat grass and bark. We care about children's growth, but we don't just look at their grades: we will strictly point out mistakes when we check our homework, but we will never scold him; We love him when he has an argument with his classmates, but we will never protect him. We are trying to shape him. We hope that he will be self-respecting and self-reliant and be a strong person in a strong and brave life.
Fourth, cooperate with teachers to do a good job in school education
Family education and school education are both important. Only by working closely with schools and teachers can parents educate their children better. After the children enter school, although we are very busy with our work, we often get up early and go to bed late, and we don't have much time to spend with our children. However, we often learn about his situation in class and school through our children, and we also find problems in our children's study through contact with teachers and checking their homework. For the requirements of the school, our teachers love their students just as parents love their children. Children thrive under the hard cultivation of countless teachers, from primary school to junior high school, high school, university to graduate students, with excellent results along the way. Here, as parents, I would like to extend my most sincere thanks to the hard-working teachers!