1, avoid nagging. Parents' nagging can not only solve the problem, but also aggravate the children's rebellious psychology and arouse their disgust.

2. When communicating with children, speak to the point, tell children what is right, what is wrong, what to do and what not to do, and convey the correct three views to children.

3. Different opinions and contradictions may be handled temporarily. After a while, I will use an opportunity to communicate with my children and let them realize their mistakes imperceptibly.

4. Create a democratic and harmonious family atmosphere. Children are independent individuals and have their own ideas. Children should be allowed to express their opinions, and their ideas should never be suppressed.

5. Understand the child's psychology, understand the potential reasons for the child's performance, avoid accusations, give more care, and reduce the source of stress and injury for the child. Recognize that this period of stability and instability is universal. The performance of "rebellious period" in the psychological state will be particularly sensitive, and naturally there will be many factors affecting the development of emotions.

6. Learn to identify with children. Teenagers in the "rebellious period" are most vulnerable to the formation of self-concept and ideological inspiration, and also need the approval and support of others most. In the face of teenagers' rebellion, we should avoid repression. The most important thing is not to label children's rebellious behavior as "rebellious period" directly, and never to deal with it by scolding.

7. Respect children and encourage them. Parents should respect their children, don't always stare at their weaknesses, and don't compare their own shortcomings with the strengths of other children. Parents should discover their children's advantages as much as possible, make a comprehensive evaluation, try to tap their children's "bright spots", encourage them more, and reduce their resistance to their parents.

8. Let the children experience it. Children always turn a deaf ear to what their parents say, so parents can also let their children experience the taste of "self-reliance" on the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences. Let the children learn their lesson.