There are good and bad generations in education, but as long as we reach a consensus with our parents on cultural education, a big problem in education will be solved. When our educational ideas are different from those of our parents, we need to communicate with the elderly actively with a calm mind, discuss the educational ideas suitable for children together, and reach a consistent teaching suggestion.
My parents were arranged to fight with other students on the military school campus, and my father went home to prepare a good lesson for the soldiers. Grandma stopped her father's violence. Grandma thinks that fighting among children is a trivial matter and should not be fought. Besides, dad thinks that children won't remember long if they don't fight.
After discussion, my father and grandmother reached an agreement and decided to let the army write a reflection book to reflect on their own problems. Seeing that grandma and dad agreed, the army realized that there was no room for resistance and began to seriously reflect. In the process of writing critical letters, children also think independently, and I have learned to develop.
(2) The reasonable integration of intergenerational education and parent-child cultural education.
With the support of the elderly, it is much easier for parents to raise their children. But the best ancestors can't replace the parents in children's minds. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are at work, don't ignore the significance of parenting education.
Parents should take the initiative to master the phenomenon of children to the elderly at ordinary times, and avoid "going their own way" and taking care of nothing. After work or holidays, parents should interact with their children more, prepare their children to go out to play, and use their time alone with their children to cultivate parent-child feelings.
(3) Appreciate the efforts made by the elderly.
We should thank the elderly for their efforts and pay more attention to their teaching experience. Even if you feel that the old man's teaching method is improper, you should not hurt the old man's heart in the form of facing reprimand. You can learn the common sense of parenting with the elderly, attend some professional parenting lectures together, enhance communication and exchange learning opportunities, and make each other's parenting concepts closer.
On the premise of being grateful to parents, it is also necessary to honor parents and set a good example for their children. In that way, intergenerational education will not only "catch love", but also let children learn to love. When intergenerational education and parent-child cultural education are perfectly integrated, children will become more and more outstanding.