Middle school students are in an important period of forming their outlook on life and values. As parents, how to do a good job in children's education and promote their healthy development in this important period? This should be a problem that parents of contemporary middle school students pay more attention to and deserve deep thought.
First, modern middle school students' family education should pay attention to three laws.
1, the rule of root carving-appreciate children
Every child has his own characteristics and advantages, so our parents should, like artists, first discover the advantages of children and then "process" them into valuable works of art.
2, emotional method-encourage children
Teachers have this kind of emotion, which will be revealed in their manners. Even a look represents an information point. The information students receive is "credits", and they will make continuous progress on the basis of continuous "credits". The information they receive is "untrustworthy", which makes students lose their self-esteem, thus retrogressing and losing their self-confidence.
3, the law of attitude-warm children
Second, ten minutes of family education for modern middle school students
Parents' love is the Wang Yang for children to swim all their lives; Parents' love is a mineral deposit that children can mine for a lifetime.
1, one-minute contact: parents' hands are holding up their children's hands. The greater the lift, the higher the position of the child.
2. Listen for one minute: When listening to the child, you must pay attention, feel refreshed, have a harmonious attitude and listen to the child enthusiastically.
3. One-minute game: After all, middle school students have not grown up. Parents can enhance their feelings with their children through games, improve their interest in life and adjust their mental state.
4, one minute correction: parents should correct their children's wrong behavior in time, and can't let it develop, otherwise it will be difficult to turn back.
5. One-minute encouragement: give more encouragement to children, encourage them to move forward, guide them to reflect, and be emotional.
6. One-minute praise: As parents, we should pay attention to discovering the outstanding performance of children in life and study, seize the best period and give praise. In the process of praise, we should pay attention to the way, place, intonation, opportunity and degree of praise.
7. One-minute participation: The purpose of participation is to cultivate children's thinking habits and promote children's ability, rather than blindly satisfying children's requirements.
8. One-minute punishment: If the child has very serious negligence, such as serious violation of discipline at school and serious uncivilized behavior in society, it must be punished, otherwise the child may degenerate and go astray.
9. Showing love in one minute: Showing love requires certain art and skills. My father is a mountain, with an inclusive mind like a mountain; Mother is heaven, and love is as tolerant as heaven.
10, one-minute expectation: parents are looking forward to seeing their children go to school. The expectation of children should be rational, realistic and developing.