We know that the development trend of male and female sexual desire is different. The peak of female sexual desire comes late, but it lasts for a long time.
For men, although the peak of sexual desire came early, it declined rapidly. Many men obviously feel that they are not as strong as before when they enter middle age.
According to statistics, in recent ten years, the low sexual desire of men in China has become the most prominent sexual problem. Even many young and strong men who have been married for several years are far from tired of their own vision and will be indifferent.
What are the symptoms of male apathy?
1. The most obvious symptom of frigidity is low sexual desire.
Normal men's response to sexual stimulation is a surge in hormone levels in the body, and then they show penile erection. Men who are frigid are indifferent to sexual stimulation, let alone penile erection.
2. Repetitive emotions
Nerve and endocrine system are closely linked, and the decrease of androgen level leads to the great decrease of nerve stability, which makes it impossible to bear the small impact of the outside world and easy to become fragile, irritable and insecure, just like the emotional disorder of female menopause.
3. Love without passion
They say that 99% of men's brains are related to sex. However, with the decrease of androgen, especially testosterone (an important material medium of sexual desire), sex may really be more in his head, so he directly shows indifference.
4. Hyperlipidemia
Sex hormones are as important to male blood vessels as sunscreen is to female skin. Clinical research shows that sex hormones can prevent atherosclerosis in male blood vessels, and testosterone can reduce bad cholesterol (high density cholesterol) and blood viscosity in blood. Without it, high blood lipid will slow down blood flow.
5. Other aspects of sexual apathy
Some patients with severe frigidity have no symptoms of erectile dysfunction. But this is a real aversion to women. It can be said that they have homosexual tendencies, but they are not homosexual patients. Then the analysis may be due to the relative increase of estrogen in the body, which leads to the feminization of men. The other is sexual psychological malformation, which is instilled with unhealthy sexual knowledge from an early age. For example, his parents taught him that sex is a contemptible behavior, or that he had been sexually abused, which led to psychological malformation.
Why are there more and more people who are frigid?
Some people question that young people are full of energy and always have endless interest in this aspect. Shouldn't the elderly be frigid?
Dr. Zheng Chuandong said that more and more young people are also coming to see a doctor because of sexual apathy. There are many reasons for the decline in sexual desire. The following are common factors.
1. Emotion: Sexual desire itself is a basic emotion. When emotions are extremely sad, anxious, depressed and desperate, sexual desire will be obviously affected.
2. Alcohol and tobacco addiction: Research shows that smoking will greatly reduce men's desire and satisfaction. Similarly, long-term alcoholism will reduce sexual function and sexual desire.
3. Drugs: Drugs have more or less side effects. For example, taking some anticancer drugs for a long time may lead to sexual dysfunction and even impotence;
4. Emotion: the harmonious relationship between husband and wife is the emotional heater of husband and wife's life. If husband and wife dislike each other and get bored, their lives will not be much harmonious.
Is there any solution?
The loss of sexual desire does not mean that the body is incomplete and irreversible. As long as the root of the problem is found, it can still cause deep sleep. Beast.
First of all, learn to treat sexual apathy correctly, don't be ashamed of it, take the initiative to get to know them and get rid of them. Second, please yourself. Sex is beyond the reach of others. Your own body knows better. Spend more time, find the feeling you like, and revive your body.
If you suspect that it is caused by disease, you can also seek the help of professional institutions to check whether it is caused by organic diseases or psychological stress, so as to prescribe the right medicine.
Sexual apathy. It's not a disaster. If it has affected life and even the relationship between husband and wife, we must face it squarely. Realizing its existence and seeking a solution will not affect the later life.