Rui Rui went to a new kindergarten because his parents moved. On the first day, his mother specially dressed him in new clothes and brought him some delicious chocolates. Rui Rui is happy to come to the new kindergarten. But when my mother came to pick up Rui Rui in the afternoon, she was surprised to find that Rui Rui's new clothes had been torn and there was a bruise on her face. As soon as Rui Rui saw his mother, he burst into tears: "Mom, they laughed at me and said I was thin and short. I don't like them. I hate going to kindergarten! " Mother looked at the weak sharp sharp, can't think of the right words to comfort. Yes, Rui Rui has always been the thinnest and shortest child in the class. My mother often goes to kindergarten. Please pay more attention to Rui Rui, but now that Rui Rui is five years old, she can't always be under special protection. It's time to find a way. So my mother first took Rui Rui to the hospital for a physical examination. The doctor said that there was nothing wrong with Rui Rui's health, and suggested that Rui Rui should do more exercise to become strong. After listening to the doctor's words, mother made a detailed exercise plan for Rui Rui. After half a year, Rui Rui is much stronger than before. Although he is not fat, he is strong and energetic. Now, Rui Rui always proudly says to his mother, "I am the most energetic boy in my class. No one dares to bully me now, and I can protect other children! " "

Exercise not only changed his sharp and emaciated appearance, but also changed his character. Rui Rui used to be very introverted and lacked self-confidence. He seldom takes the initiative to participate in class activities. Now he often takes part in some activities voluntarily, and he is much more confident than before.

Physical appearance and physique refer to a person's five senses, height, weight and body proportion. Appearance and physique are indirect factors that affect personality, because appearance and physique will affect individuals' evaluation of themselves and others' reaction to themselves.

We can often see in life that some handsome people are proud of their outstanding appearance and are more confident; And those who are ugly, or people with physical defects, often feel distressed and depressed about their looks, and are prone to negative and negative emotions.

However, this does not mean that appearance can determine a person's personality. What position does appearance occupy in everyone's personality development and whether it has a positive influence depends entirely on the views of others in the children's environment, especially the "authority figure" in the children's mind, as well as some other personality characteristics of the children themselves, especially a person's ability and ideal.

A child with outstanding appearance may become a confident and highly dependent person because of family disharmony, improper parents' education, poor academic performance and inability to know himself correctly. However, if a child with poor looks or physical defects gets enough warmth and help in the family and the collective, has outstanding ability, a correct outlook on life and is willing to work hard for his dream, it is very likely that he will achieve extraordinary achievements in his career and win people's respect.

Studies have shown that there is a certain correlation between the physique and personality characteristics of normal children. Children with short stature, poor coordination and relatively weak constitution tend to show shy, timid, negative and melancholy personality characteristics.

In contrast, children of the same age who are strong, energetic and well coordinated often have humorous, optimistic, self-expressive, talkative and creative personalities.

In fact, although physique will have an impact on personality, social factors are the decisive factors for personality development. Therefore, parents should not only strive to make their children have a healthy body, but also pay attention to their hearts, and at the same time, pay attention to let their children not develop the bad habit of judging people by their appearances.