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Nine-year-olds love to lie. How to educate lying children?
1, first find out the reason for lying and prescribe the right medicine. Parents should find out the motivation and nature of their children's lying, and then take effective measures according to different lying behaviors, so that the education of their children can suit the right medicine and be targeted. For children who intentionally lie, parents should discover and expose their lies in time, let them understand that lying is subject to criticism and punishment, and resolve their attempts to lie in time; And if it is because parents often lie and children lie, parents must seriously review their behavior and set a good example for their children.

2. Listen more and communicate more with children. When children lie in anticipation of negative consequences, parents should understand their children's needs and make more practical rules. If a child can do it and is willing to do it, he naturally doesn't have to lie. In addition, some children will lie to attract their parents' attention because they have little contact with their parents. In other words, parents should strengthen communication and interaction with their children on weekdays, learn more about their children's thoughts, and let their children feel the care and attention of their parents.

3. Meet children's reasonable demands and wishes. For example, toys, books, markers, etc. should be bought for children at the right time. Let children realize that what they need, as long as it is reasonable and what the family can do, will be satisfied. This can avoid the situation that children can take back other people's things casually without telling their parents and children because their needs are not met.