China's traditional education theory attaches great importance to the cultivation of people, and regards the cultivation of sound personality as an important goal of education. The ancient family education thought was influenced by it, and it also attached great importance to educating children how to be human and perfecting their personality. In family education, we emphasize both quality and study, but put the cultivation of personality in the first place. It is believed that learning high is not the real purpose, but for high quality. It should be said that it is a fine tradition of China's traditional family education to learn to be a man and study with self-cultivation and moral behavior. In order to cultivate the perfect personality of future generations, ethical education has become an important part of family education in ancient China.