1. Why are there other people's children? The reason why there are other people's children in the eyes of their families is because they have good academic performance in the eyes of their parents and will always be good children. Parents should not label other people's children casually, so other people's children will be very painful. Every child will make mistakes and grow up, so what we have to do is to give our children the best education. Parents should never always compare their children's shortcomings with others' strengths, which will make their children feel very tired.
Second, being kind to other people's children is to accumulate happiness for your own children. Parents don't know that being kind to other people's children is accumulating happiness for their own children. If parents blindly treat other people's children, others will say that children are good. You must be full of love for other people's children. When you find someone else's children doing something wrong, parents can help them make the right choice in time, and children can feel the love of their parents. Every family has its own unique way of education, so don't compare your children with others, which will make your children's comparison more serious.
Third, how to educate children best? Parents should not give their children too much comparison psychology when educating them, which will make them feel that there is nothing to do in life except comparison. Parents must promote their children's development and help them solve the contradiction between two people. If parents blindly compare their children with other people's children, the children's psychology will be distorted. Parents must be kind to other people's children in order to make them develop better.